Blame others for your problem and you will never get out of it....
One of my friend was hurt, I asked for the reason and he replied he has been hurt by someone he loves. Well, to that I thought, why we give this privilege to others that they can hurt us.
The choice is always ours all the time, which path we choose, one will lead to constant misery and pain and other will liberate us from our suffering.
If you want to succeed in life and have a joyful life, never blame other for your problems and issues, remember this and remember forever that only you and you are responsible for the problems in your life. It is not just some moralistic teaching, but it is the only way out of the problem, let's look how so.
When you blame someother person for your suffering or problems, for it to get solved, that other has to change. It is just commonsense, a problem will only get solved if its source is altered in way suitable for the situation. So blaming other will need that other person to change to get rid of your suffering, but that other person you can't control. Hence you will be forever stuck with your suffering or problem or whatever it is you are blaming other for and you will end up bitching about the person all your life but you will never get solace.
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That is what happens with whole lot of people, they carry all their life problems on their back all the time, and that is only because they were not human enough to realize that it is they who are responsible for it. That baggage of problems constantly haunt them and sometimes they even flaunt their suffering with pride, how pity.
But there is other path to deal with the life issues and that is, blame yourself and not others. Now there is a solution because that other is out of picture, you now not depend on others for the solution, you have the freedom to work upon yourself and that could be done very easily. It may very well happen that your issues are because of others in your life but still blaming them don't provide any way out. This blaming yourself technique is only because it will help you to deal with situation rightly. You will handle your life very effortlessly once you see the point I am trying to make.
"Blame others and you will suffer forever, blame yourself and your are out of it."......... This is the whole mantra.
Namaskar.