When money talks, especially where millions is involved, people will blame you and hate you for everything if they do not get anything after they gave you something which was mostly not even used at all.
This is why I hate how money turns us into someone greedy & manipulative. We all make mistakes, no one is perfect. #stophate We do not control everything. Things happen that are not in our control all the time. God and the universe moves in mysterious ways. #respect
I asked for help from a lot of people to assist a client. Apparently asking for help from several people and them getting the management involved in the process is not a good thing in the Philippine real estate setting.
I'm not one to blame anyone. Whatever happens in any situation is what happens. I know we don't have control over other people and it is a bad thing to manipulate others just to gain anything. Life is unfair I know that and so I deal with whatever comes the best way I can. I accept whatever outcome happens because we cannot force people to do anything. In fact we should not force anyone against their will.
Other people are not me of course and so I understand if they would blame and hate me for the things I do. I do not blame them for what they did and yet they blame me and insult me for what I decided to do. Now who is unprofessional? Is it a blame game now?
Sales is about numbers. Sales is always about results and that is what I don't like about it. Yes it involves people but ultimately it is the final outcome that matters to most and it is what decides who stays or goes. Learn how to play the game and don't hate the players.
Acceptance of the things that happen in life is a hard thing to learn. But of course if someone has been in the sales and real estate industry for a decade I would believe they know how this goes by now. I do not have that much experience in real estate but I have been selling online for more than a decade. The sales industry does not always have the same rules and guidelines so one field cannot really compare to another.
There is no comparison to anyone's situation. We all have our own circumstances, we each can make up our own excuses over the things that we cannot control. We all have our own life situations that happen when we least expect it. What is important is how we take action, learn from it and move on. Especially if it is not even a life changing and life altering experience, why should anyone hate on each other? Did anyone die? Did anyone get into an accident and lose a limb? Did anyone commit suicide? If it did then it will turn the situation into a grave matter. Luckily this situation is not even supposed to be a big deal. It's all in a day's work for God's sake. Not everything in life is easy and good things in life are not handed to us on a silver platter.
This is why people quit anything related to big money if they can't handle it. This is why non-rich people like me do not like doing business involving really really big money I don't even give too much shit about. Hundreds of pesos and even millions of money mostly means uber-sleazy sales/business people and dealings. It does not go well with my soul.
I commend those who stay long in the sales industry, the police force who uphold the truth and the law and those who fight for human rights and still come out with a good and clean soul intact.
Earning enough means a simpler life and happier lifestyle. No grand ego and guilt trips and manipulative shit going on with anyone thank you very much. I know enough of that my whole life and it's always ugly so I stay away from it. God gave me a chance to earn a lot and somehow it seems like I blew it.
Yes I know, people will be reading this until Steemit and the blockchain is online. Yes people will read my opinion. Everybody has opinions. Everyone thinks they are right. I am not perfect I have my faults, same as anyone. We make mistakes. Nobody wants to admit when they are wrong. Well I know I made mistakes and I don't go around blaming anyone anymore whenever I make mistakes. I have learned that blaming does not change and improve what happens in life so I just learn from my experiences. If not then I just keep doing it over and over until I learn my lesson. Isn't that what living is anyway?
If it is a crime to ask for help from anyone who can help in certain situations then put me in jail. No one will ever ask for help if this is the case in anything. If someone asked me for help but I couldn't help as much as the person expected of me then who am I to blame that person?
Always remember we can only give what we have. We cannot provide everything other people need even though we wanted to. It is never our place to guilt trip, manipulate, abuse other people just to get what we want. It is our choice if we blame ourselves and that is another matter.
Life is never fair. Let us learn to deal well with it and be better people in the process.
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