6 thinghs that you shouldn't do when you argue with your girlfriend or boyfriend
It's easy to hurt those we love, so it's advisable to be careful about the words you say and the actions you do. Remember that even though the fight is over, the fault remains and can cause great cracks in your relationship as time passes.
I support you and give you some valuable tips to "sweeten" a fight with your partner.
1. Don't include family members in quarrel
No matter what type of argument you have, you should not include other family members in your conflict. You're just going to make it worse. In addition, you will make your partner address his or her antipathy to those individuals or to you (if it is his relatives).
2. Do not act violently
Fights are part of a relationship, so you can not just cut them off the list. What matters in such moments is the type of attitude you both adopt. Never act violently because you will invite your partner to do the same.
3. Do not combine multiple conflicts
Never mix more conflicts at the same time. You will stir up a real storm if you start to quarrel about something trivial, and then talk about the phase in which he neglected you because he went out with his friends to drink beer.
4. Don't talk about the split
Do you always talk about breaking up when you fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Big mistake! Perhaps you expect him to react positively and change, but you can make him think more and more often about a separation.
5. Do not let him speak for himself
It is not normal to lose your temper and to leave your partner when you reproach something. Try to listen to it, understand it, and find a compromise together. If you go, you prove that you do not care about what it feels and what it does. So you realize that you like to impose yourself and that you want to impede his freedom.
6. Do not argue in public
It is better to solve your problems in privacy. So, you will not only prove that you do not respect each other, but also that you do not respect those around you.
Have you made these mistakes so far when you argue with your partner?
Very good and valueable post...however I don
t have someone to argue with and even when I would have I dont like argueing..anyway...upvoted and already following you!I don't like to argue in a relationship, but sometimes contradictory opinions appear and the situation needs to be resolved. Thanks for your support, and I'm following you too :)
Great message :)
Indeed, communication is important in a relationship
Worthful post...
Thank you, I appreciate your comment :*
Thanks
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Excellent advise ever...good message @allesia :)
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