This is what we call in our language as eating "buah simala kama". I am as a mother was worried about it long before our kids were born. Should we bring our children to school or make them stay at home to have home schooling only?If we still prefers saving our face and good name than saying the rightness and the truth, this problem will still exist no matter how long we wait. If the uncertainty of law regulation in our country is still a big chance in our hand, then it is almost impossible that the law can protect our children. I think go back to the family education and hold on to the power of prayer to Allah is still the best shot we have to always try. I don't see any other than these ways will work better to make me cope with the anxiety. Hopefully that the man with power in their hands care for this problem sincerely for the sake of their own heir and God.