Love Your Family even Live Simple
It's heartbreaking! If a household relationship should be destroyed and lead to divorce. Of course that would be a victim is a 'child' from the results of their love alloy. The child should grow up with the attention of his mother and father. But the condition of broken home cause attention of love is not obtained again by the child. This situation, automatically adversely affect the mental and character of the child until adulthood.
Steemians friend, this time I tried to tell the story of broken home family and innocent woman who easily eaten by seduction man masher, has been married. This is not a fiction story, it is a true story, which is experienced by a young girl with a sweet face who is my wife's friend.
Of course not elegant if I have to specify the figure of a woman who I will write this story, because it must prioritize the privacy rights of someone. But the very essence of the bitter experience of a failure to build this 'household' can be a valuable lesson for all of us.
Call it a young woman in sweet nan ayu is a Rose. He is an innocent girl from Pidie Jaya, a new district in Aceh Province. He came from a simple family with limited education as well. Rose was originally a jovial girl who had the ideal of being happy with an established man.
About four years ago, he was fascinated falling in the arms of a well-established man from West Aceh district. Everyday this man looks very charming and tajir. He is a man who has a wife. This man wrestle in the mining business so often away from home.
Rose innocent girl has hope one day can live well and proud of both parents. Such desires are very natural and very human. He's knees before this man. As if hypnotized by the gentle breeze of heaven's heaven. Yet all the beauty offered is a mere fantasy.
Although finally Mawar knows the man has been married. He still willing to be married into a wife who knows how much? for the man this jar. They officially became husband and wife according to religion, after saying Kabul's permission in a procession married series.
Rose brought to Meulaboh and settled in the residential complex where I live. The masher guy who owns it, is none other than my own kongkow friend. I can not intervene in their lives. That's their choice.
I never ramble when Rose always keeps her husband's arms. Though I am very sorry to see the story of his life. He also has the first baby with the man. I'm happy, to see him happy with bright hopes in the future.
After the business of the bankruptcy, one by one his property went on sale, even cars that are often driven also cheap cheap. He began to never appear in the home of his young wife. I began to never see this man again. The news that I get, he prefers to stay in the house of his old wife.
Hand Phone (HP) the man began to often not active. If actively dielpon, often reasoned busy work and so forth. Two days do not come home, a week, until a month never go home. Rose begins to lose hope. But I never communicate with Roses at all, because it encourages my wife to continue to entertain the desperate woman.
He chose to return home to his hometown. Trying to look tough, he brought a child of the fruit of love together in a masherless man left Meulaboh. We can not do much, it's his life and that's the result of his choice because married man has married.
Steemian friend, with a bad experience facing the Rose, I invite all of us to perceive how his condition, the shock of his soul, and keadannya at that time. Destruction has been a great hope to achieve happiness.
What if the Rose is our mother and the child she is born with is us? We will mature without the outpouring of the intact affection of the parents. This broken homen condition, very detrimental to the child's mental because would not want to grow big without the attention of parents like other children.
I understand the true twist of the condition of a floating child without the love of parents? Since my own kindergarten school (TK) my parents officially divorced in the Religious Court of Banda Aceh. So, if the mother chooses to remarry. In general, a child lasts only a few years to live with his mother.
Furthermore, if her mother did not sail to her relatives, she would choose to stay away from her mother. Awry! because here there is a game of uncomfortable feelings with his stepfather. Likewise if following his father, there is less comfort with his stepmother. So remember the song of cruelty stepmother hehehe ... that is not broken home do not resapi, will never understand!
Mentally such a child will be nurtured hard, because he will grow up far from his parents. No word is spoiled for them, when he is cold in the middle of the night, there will be no screams "mama get a blanket" so if he is hungry, can not eat, before washing dishes first. Habit, the character of the child without the affection of the parents, more closed and silent hold his desire. Hopefully our children later, not to feel such a bitter condition.
Here I invite steemian friends to be able to respect their respective spouses, let our households can be lasting and our children not to experience the journey of life bitter ala broken home.
As for the steemian is still single ting-ting, please do not play the feelings of the opposite sex of each type. If emank true you feel very deep and great against your opposite sex, please express! Hopefully can be intertwined to the aisle.
But if you do not have more love and affection for boyfriend or girlfriend, do not you take advantage of blind love condition of others to use it, it would be nice if you express honesty about your feelings towards him. You can invite him to think clearly and be friends only. Anyway! Not all love must belong to each other.
Please my friend, do not dasari a relationship because of lust, because it would end up disappointing in the future with frills silly regret. Prioritize a positive approach without a bap first when you are stuck at first sight, because a relationship that begins cool communication with each other, can help you understand, what is the feeling in the heart? love or pity! Let us prioritize postive thinking to welcome their respective bright future.
