Not so much trouble in human life? Tell me why, why so much trouble?

Human life is not like birds? Fly, roam around! People say?
You know, Once Upon A Time ... I Was a Butterfly! Yes, Believe It or Not, I Was! Like every other girl. Like every daughter-in-law I was also a butterfly. But one day I got married. I discover I have no wings. Marriage means tie, I stuck in bonding.

All new people, new rules and regulations; A strange world It's not like dream! Even when looking at the teenage children, the dolls seemed like they were seen, and the children were not like puppets. Your child, but everyone is scared to meet! So, in this strange world, I became afraid.
Dad is always my friend. He never gives much advice to children. But one day he heard me taunting me on the phone. He said, 'Listen to mother, who does not do anything to do what you do, whatever you do in your life, before doing the work, think only one thing that if God does this, how will I feel about my relationship with God? Will be! It will not take any more time.

Though my father does not remember this much of my time, but I am honestly telling that this was a magic for my life and I have found out many beautiful paths to purify various things.
We know that it is not mandatory for the father-in-law of his father-in-law or in-laws, but it is related to 'Suluk'
Relation with patience, thankfulness, taqwa, ichlas, pride, anger, greed, etc. Relevant to the beautiful shirk. And Allah commanded the Almighty Allah to give the command to build beautiful silence. Gradually I learned and understood that tahakia means self-realization is the key to happiness and success. And the thought was to find some way of good and peace. Words are long Maybe life is like that long But still I would request you to read.

My first lesson is-

1. 'Ikhlas' is for Allah.
   I will do what I do for Allah. Similarly, when the marriage has started, the family has to start working. Whether he is in a different world, or in a joint body. Before I was in my mother's house, mother gave me food. Now I am in my own house, I have to do my eating job. But if I can do anything other than my own work, I will do it.
   I would like to do the duty of worshiping my father-in-law, but if I do that, if I do all the time doing wrong to my own body, then I am indebted to them, I also work hard, I have earned my sin. But it is not wrong to do not serve the mother-in-law of her in-laws. But it is wrong for them to do wrong Troubling them by words, misbehaving is unfair.