Simple Ways to Grow Optimism for Children
All right, let's get straight to the point.
An optimist is a person who has feelings and desires. Why is the child's optimistic attitude important? In addition to providing long-term effects on mental attitude and positive physical health and optimistic people are generally longer life! An optimistic child will usually feel happier and more successful at school.
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You certainly want your child to grow into a happy and successful child, right? Raising an optimistic child is not difficult. Here's what you have to do:
- Stop complaining
"Oh, rain. The streets must be jammed everywhere. We're not going to be on time at the party". Have you ever said it in front of your child? If so, stop doing it. Always focusing on negative thoughts and frustration is a form of calculus from pessimism. And, the more often your child sees or hears complaints, the more likely he will imitate his parents. As a parent, you should have the ability to turn a negative atmosphere into a positive one. Instead of complaining about the rain and bad roads, you can say positive things like "Well, luckily we have not washed the car. Not bad, this rain cleans the car for free!"
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- Have high expectations
Having high expectations for children is a very common thing for parents. For example, you ask the child to tidy up his own bed every day before breakfast. Do not be afraid the child can not do it. Instead, your expectations will evoke positive feelings for your child. When he succeeds in making the rules according to your expectations, he will feel increasingly desirous to achieve higher achievement. Remember, children will not develop the "I can" attitude! unless given the opportunity to prove his ability. "Giving confidence to the child to complete the task will make him feel capable".
hopefully this can be useful for all of us
Regards, @syifauna
I believe the same can happen at school, where optimism is not abundant in most cases! Thank you for this post :)
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