Tomorrow's Horoscope Sep 6th, 2019

in horoscope •  10 days ago 

You are appreciated, but maybe not as how you want to be.
Or maybe you cannot happily accept the appreciation for some reasons.

For example, you may receive a promotion while you are thinking of changing jobs.
Or, one of your friends may confess love to you while you are unrequitedly in love with someone else.

Yes, it is difficult to choose.
Should you promote at the current company, or start from zero at a more hopeful company?
Should you believe in your love and pursue the unrequited love?

Maybe you can offer different options to the offerers.
If the future of the current company is hopeless, maybe you can make it hopeful by suggesting another new business after your promotion.
Maybe you can suggest being a good friend to him who has confessed love to you before officially accept or deny it.

Yes, I know it sounds difficult.
If the current company is conservative, the executives may not accept suggestions from a new manager.
If you become a good friend with him and you reject his offer at the end, it will hurt him more deeply than reject it now.

I wrote another day that you should challenge different things, but postpone your final decision.
It is difficult these days because there are others involved and so you need to take its responsibility if you challenge it.
Maybe you want to accept and challenge the offer a bit and see what happens, but the people involved want serious commitment from you if you accept it.

あなたは評価されている。
が、あなたの期待する通りではなかったり。
諸々の事情で、評価を素直に喜べないのかもしれない。

例えば、転職を考えている最中、会社から昇進の打診をもらったり。
例えば、好きな人とは別の人から告白されるのかもしれない。

どっちをとるかはとても難しい問題。
斜陽産業の会社で昇進するか、新天地でゼロからやり直すか。
自分の気持ちを信じて、気持ちの見えない好きな人を追い求めるか。

たぶん、ほとんどの場合無理だとは思うんだけど。
斜陽産業であるならば、今の会社で昇進した後、新事業をあなたが提案し、会社の未来に光を灯すことをあなたが買って出るのもいいかもしれない。
とりあえず、告白の返事は保留にして、告白してきた人と、お友達からはじめてみることを提案してみるのもいいかもしれない。

フットワーク軽く動くのはよし、しかし最終決定を下すのは先送りして、とはいったものの。
相手の事情もあるので、なかなか難しい。
例えば、会社が保守的だと、新しく管理職に昇進したばかりの人が新事業など提案して、通ることはないだろうし。
例えば、お友達からはじめるにしても、告白を保留というのは、少なからず相手を期待させてしまう。
もし、最終的に「好きな人を追うので、あなたはやっぱりごめんなさい」と言うことになると、相手の傷は、今即断るより深くなると思うんだよね。

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