"How can I know how to choose between two guys who have shown an interest in me?"

Hello,

There are two guys who appear to be interested in me; I guess I just wonder which one is more sincere?!

Jean

credit: Romain Laurent

Hello Jean,

You can and should decide for yourself who is more sincere. If I told you I would be taking your power away and that is not appropriate. Here are some tools that can help you decide … and life may really surprise you! Are you ready?!

It is quite easy to decide about someone’s level of honesty. It is the same with other values that may be important to you – loyalty, sharing, caring, fidelity and so on.

• The fundamental rule before you begin is that YOU, yourself, must be an honest person. Not just in your relationships but in all areas of your life. In order for you to be able to see if someone is honest, you need to be a pure and empty vessel for intuitive voices. How do you become such a vessel? It’s simple – be honest.

• Secondly, you need to speak out your intention for a clear situation. For instance, when you struggle in your mind over who is more sincere, and many thoughts flow in and out and the confusion grows - STOP! Take a deep breath, several of them, and then choose to be clear. Say to yourself, in your mind or verbally, “I choose clarity”. Then just be quiet in your mind, release all thoughts about the situation and TRUST that things will get clearer.

How will they?

It can be in many ways. One of the guys may suddenly leave your life while the other becomes much closer to you and then you know that the universe has come to your help. Another option for clearing may happen when you suddenly get a strong feeling within you as to the right thing to do. It may come as a sudden insight or feeling that will guide you about who is more sincere.

The main thing and what is most important is to TRUST that things are WELL, always and STOP thinking too much about the situation. When you trust and ease your mind you allow the natural flow of creation – which is LOVE – to come towards you from the realms it resides in now. That means that the MOST appropriate potential connected with those guys will manifest itself effortlessly. And speaking of potentials – why limit yourself? What if what is best for you right now is a totally new man, one who you don’t know yet! Did you consider that option?

You see, once you state your choice to be clear, all the paths to you are opened and many new and surprising situations may come. Far grander than you could ever expect!... mark these words - life may surprise you bigtime!