Homosexuality and energy blending; The consciousness behind our sexual orientation

in #homosexuality6 years ago (edited)

Disclaimer: In this lifetime of mine I am heterosexual. I have not had physical sexual experiences with men and therefore what I write below is not based on my personal experience. Therefore, you are advised to exercise your own discretion throughout the reading.

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We are living in an era in which the boundaries between the sexes are becoming blurred. Such changes cause some individuals to forcefully hold to their old opinions and statuses, while other humans escape from any restrains and gallop forward on the horses of change.

We must remember that the primary principles apply also here:

  • We are creating our reality
  • It is our responsibility to choose our life
  • There are no mistakes.

That means that if we are attracted to our own gender it doesn’t make us not normal because only us decide what normality is. The more we advance on our spiritual path the more we release old social conventions that no longer fit who we become. Since humanity has always categorized humans into two sexes we came to accept the male-female division as the only option and as the only truth. Therefore some of us feel now uncomfortable when other truths are revealed to us and affect us.

The new truths

Those truths say that a human male, as a human female, are a complete energy essence. Such truth is realized in particular in our sexual orientations as well. Ultimately, we will reach a balance by which we will integrate within us both the feminine and the masculine consciousnesses. But remember that basically, there is no such division and the energy is one. The indoctrination caused us to believe in partitions.

That does not imply immoderate and irresponsible sexual behavior. Indeed, some people who find themselves on the path of self-discovery feel that they must do their explorations by trying everything, by experiencing any kind of sexual activity until their exhausted bodies are satisfied with experiencing the various types of the existed energies. Such a walk of life can be extremely tiring and quite inefficient.

Remember – you can choose your life rather than succumb to external situations or impulsive whims. Therefore, once you become complete and whole, or while still on the way to become one, you can choose your sexual orientation. You** can choose who to be attracted to.**

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Choosing sexual orientation

Children are born with both sexual-orientations activated within their body of consciousness. In their first years, they experience, explore and eventually orient themselves to what serves the, best.

But such a process of choosing doesn't end. If you are going through a phase in your life where you still question your sexuality you really do not need to try it out in order to reach a conclusion. In fact, most probably it would not help you at all to have sex with both genders, that is women and men (and sometimes at the same time), in order to decide. Why? Because the answers cannot come from the physical; from the outside. It is an issue of consciousness and energy integration of your many aspects. Indeed, it is appropriate to think and to imagine and even to ponder the possibility of being either heterosexual or gay, but you do not need to torment your body in order to know what fits you the best.

Knowing that this physical reality is an illusion and mostly its expressions in flesh, you then can realize that your love towards another individual is a combination of the body, the mind, the heart and the spirit. Consequently, your choice will always be based on the integration of those four elements and not just on the physical one. Therefore, the question of your sexual orientation becomes pointless.

Incidentally, this is the reason I do not go to love parades. The concept in the event is amazingly profound - no more shame! no more guilt! - but in the recent years, there is too much emphasis on the physical (exhibitionism has become the new religions) and less on the essence.

If you are asked: “what kind of sexual human are you?”, you can answer: “I am everything. From this complete stance, I choose how to express myself in the now moment”. That is the most accurate answer you can give. And indeed, such a “now moment” can last for this whole lifetime, in which you choose to be attracted to the opposite gender or the same gender. For those who observe you from the outside, it would seem that you are either gay or heterosexual, but you would know that it’s simply you who get to choose what expression you are in this lifetime. In other realities and lifetimes you can (and most surely do) choose differently.

Once we get into this vantage point of seeing sex and the division of genders merely as an expression of energy, we realize that that division is as ancient as humanity is. We realize that life is an expression of masculine and feminine energies. When a situation is balanced and peaceful then the masculine and the feminine energies that comprise the situation are balanced as well.

An example

In times of wars, for instance, the sexual energy is gravely distorted toward the masculine. In violent situations, the same occurs. Therefore, when the society is expressing it's feminine aspects, like in love-parades, a counter-movement is taking place, and balance is restored.

Energy can be equally distorted to the other side as well. When a little girl, for instance, is continuously preached to repress natural expressions of force, aggression, and activism (simply because she is told that such behaviors are "not appropriate" for a young lady) the natural masculine energy within her is suffocated. That will inadvertently lead to rebellion in a later age and the masculine side will demand its proper recognition. Understanding that will help you to balance the movement of energies within until you become whole and balanced.

Then, you can make a choice!


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Interesting subject and even more interesting in comment section 😆. I personally am religious as you probably already know. That doesn’t mean I judge people for who they are. I completely agree with you about people deciding for themselves what is normal and what’s not. And if it means to be a gay, bi, anything, let them be and respect that. I’m also aware that for whatever reason people sometimes pretend to be someone or something they are not. Sometimes they are confused about who they are as well. But at the end they become whoever they really are. You just can’t pretend you entire life. I personally would rather be who I really am than pretend to be something that I'm not. If you are straight, be straight! If you are gay, be gay!

In the coming decades people's sexual orientation will fluctuate, by choice I mean. The more inner integration of the feminine-masculine aspects will take place, the more natural it will feel for people to be attracted to others regardless their gender. We will be indifferent to one's physicality, how one looks like.
This direction will grow once we learn to change and shift our physical appearance. Much like it shows here :

For some, this is a very sensitive and I know there are still many who are not open in this kind of topic. I have many gay and lesbian friends and I love them. Acceptance is a very important factor in their wholeness, in their totality as a person. I agree we all have a choice! I chose to stay on my feminine side and I am happy with it. We should live freely and show the world who we really are without any hesitations. We should learn to accept other people's sexuality.

I disagree with you completely. Claiming a person can change their sexual preference is like claiming a person can change their skin color. Sure, you can try, but you'll end up a Michael Jackson.

Another very important aspect you're confusing here, IMO, is the difference between GENDER and sexual preference. One is a social construct. The other is a biological trait like skin color or height.

I am pansexual. That means that my attraction to people does not depend on their gender or sex. I am attracted to humans because of who they are, not the type of equipment they have between their legs. You may say we all have feminine and masculine energy, but balance of it is individual.

I do, however, agree that we can only describe ourselves in the moment. Today I am pansexual gender-indifferent female. Will I feel like a straight male tomorrow? I hope not, but it can happen. Life changes us constantly.

The thing that hurts me most about this post is the misconception that sexual preference can be chosen. These type of misconceptions are harmful, especially to young people facing their sexual development and the confusion that comes with it.

The thing that hurts me most about this post is the misconception that sexual preference can be chosen.

I am afraid this is a response coming from a POV of someone who has lived in Israel and has been exposed too often and too much to the fanatic and ignorant religious discussion. Been there myself, of course.

Choosing sexual orientation (you were right about my confusion with GENDER, ty) is our birthright, and this is exactly what I am trying to convey in the post. Sexual orientation is NOT physical (only), and since it's not bound to the physical, and since it's originated in consciousness it can be changed, just like anything physical can be changed. I feel that you took my words to say something they don't ("if we can change our sexual orientation then we can stop being gay/lesbians"), which is exactly the religious ignorant say

especially to your people facing their sexual development and the confusion that comes with it.

We are born with potentials of sexual orientation. At some point in life we choose which would be dominant, masculine, feminine, or both, or none, according to what would serve us best in life. As you said – balance is individual. All are equally valid, all are beautiful. In this light my post should be read and I am thankful for the feedback as it allows me to clear my standing.

A general comment - in my blog and my posts I am lobbying the idea that we, humans, are not victims, have the power to change our reality, have nothing to be ashamed of or feel guilty for, and should claim our sovereignty. I will keep challenging my readers, (and myself), to explore new dimensions and unrevealed territories of the psyche where we live contrary to those pillars.

@techsult -🙏

I am afraid this is a response coming from a POV of someone who has lived in Israel and has been exposed too often and too much to the fanatic and ignorant religious discussion. Been there myself, of course.

Not at all! It actually comes from years of reading articles about gay youths and pre-teen transgender people. Also, I've been watching the show "Masters of Sex" on Netflix and they delve into some interesting arguments about sex, sexuality and their impact on our lives. I strongly recommend you watch this show.

In this show, there is a character of a highly respected man, married and prominent in his world. He is battling himself, harming himself and living a miserable life because he prefers men, but the world forbids him. This battle causes suffering to all those around him and (spoiler) brings him to attempt suicide. Many do, especially young and inexperienced individuals who are told "you're gay because you're broken in some way or imbalanced and you have the power to change to be normal". It is horrible and dangerous. It's statements like this that drive transgender teens to suicide. According to statistics, MOST OF THEM attempt it. Why? Because we do not encourage people to accept themselves, but rather pressure them into finding a "balance" and changing internally and externally to cater to the demands of the masses, looking to normalize everyone into heterocis cookie-cutter humans. Gender is fluid, sex is a result of biological function. Sometimes trying to change what and who you are is far more damaging than accepting it.

I do believe we are born with certain pre-defined tastes. I, for example, cannot tolerate the taste of olives. I never did. The very smell makes me want to vomit. About a decade ago, I found out why - I am allergic to them. My body doesn't want them. I believe it is the same with attraction. We desire those who compliment us and "fit" the combination of our minds, spirits and bodies.

Sure, I can try and treat this allergy. Take pills of shots. But why should I? I don't like the smell or taste of olives, same as you are not attracted to men.

I love your comments, not for the sake of the argument, because there's none, (I second your words 100%), but for the benefit of the others who will stumble upon our discussion in the future.

Many do, especially young and inexperienced individuals who are told "you're gay because you're broken in some way or imbalanced and you have the power to change to be normal".

I hope it's clear that there's no judgment from my end or in my post. Straight or gray is equally Normal! And those who try to normalize other people, in every field of life, are ignorant. How did Yeshua put it? "forgive them father for they do not know".
My point to every human being remains the same -

It is OK to be who and whatever you choose! Seek no one's approval, especially about your sexuality.

I don't like the smell or taste of olives, same as you are not attracted to men.

And lastly, @techslut, comparing men to olives, made me think, because I love olives very much 😉😊

I love olives very much 😉😊

You pervert! :P

you can choose your life rather than succumb to external situations or impulsive whims. Therefore, once you become complete and whole, or while still on the way to become one, you can choose your sexual orientation. You can choose who to be attracted to.

In my opinion.
For most people, sexual desire may arise from visual sightings or specific touches. However for the sake of sexual, need more of it all to be able to get her sexually aroused.
Sexual attraction is a thing that can't be controlled with a purpose. A person will not be able to force it to arise or disappear. Another case of sexual behavior that can be selected with the consciousness of a person based on various considerations ranging from the context of implementing the behavior to a set of norms and values inherent in his mind.

For the sake of sexuality are also often considered one eye by society, particularly when it is experienced by women. Because the dominant culture framework expects more women submisif or passive in the context of sexuality, for the sake of his sexuality was not considered a ' difference ' is significant.
Thank for this my Teacher @nomad-magus

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