Marriage pressure

Assalamualaikum,
First of all, I would like to sincerely thank @okere-blessing mam for organizing such a beautiful competition called marriage pressure. This topic is not just a topic of discussion, it is a real problem that touches almost every young woman in our society in some way or the other. So participating in this competition is not just an opportunity for me to write, but also an opportunity to express my feelings.

Marriage pressure means an invisible burden, where society, family, relatives and even friends repeatedly tell an adult that it is time to get married. These words may come from good intentions but gradually they create instability in people's minds. Many people forget about their career, studies or mental preparation and get married to save face in society. But the question is how much happiness can a decision taken due to pressure bring?

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In my opinion, the main reason for this is social norms and fear. In our society, it is believed that if you do not get married at a certain age, something remains incomplete. Families think that if you do not get married now, it will be difficult to find a good husband or wife later. Many people look at others and think that their daughter or son got married, why not mine? This comparison creates unnecessary pressure.

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No, never. Marriage is not just a relationship between two people, it is a mental, emotional and lifelong commitment. A marriage done because of pressure may initially make everyone happy but in the end it remains hollow inside. When a person marries against his own will, the foundation of that relationship becomes shaky.

*Choosing the wrong partner.
*Mental discomfort and depression.
*Lack of self-esteem and confidence.
*Fear of relationship breakdown or separation.
*Losing your dreams and goals.

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*Listen to your own mind. If you are not ready, then say it clearly?
*Talk to your family. Many times they do not understand, but after explaining, they will definitely understand.
*Develop yourself. Career, studies, self-reliance, these will make you confident.
*Don't give in to pressure, remember that the right person will come at the right time.

Marriage is a beautiful relationship but that relationship is beautiful only when it is built on the basis of love, respect and desire. Marry not because of pressure but because of love then only there will be happiness in life. Marriage can be the beginning of your happiness, but because of pressure marriage can be the burden of life.

I am inviting my three dear friends,
1.@sumon
2.@baizid123
3.@sabuj