Yes, this has happened to me many times. I find one of my habits quite strange. I only see the world from a positive perspective. I think that every person in the world is very good. This was a year ago when a woman moved into neighborhood house to live. She had a baby boy and a husband. Her husband used to go to work in the morning and come home late at night. They were very poor and they didn't even have anything to eat. When I saw them, I felt very sorry. I told my mother, "Mom, we also cook, right? So whatever we cook, we will give them." I asked her permission and she agree,They started spending a very good time with us.I felt very good about helping them. Now they had improved and they lived with us most of the time and they also ate food from our house and often I would see them eating and so on. But one day suddenly we had a fight with our other neighbors. They were treating us very badly and were saying a lot. They said that we were not good people. Then when I found out later, it was our neighbor who we used to feed who had planned for us to leave . She wanted to throw us out of this house .So after that I felt a lot more sad because she had been very rude to my mother because of how much my mother had to listen to that lady because of my being so good.

“Do you think is right to judge someone maybe because of the appearance without knowing what the person is up to?.”

No, not at all. I have learned from my life that you should not judge someone by their appearance or their appearance whether they are good or bad. Sometimes, people who seem good turn out to be very cruel and sometimes people who seem very cruel are also very good. We judge each other very quickly. We make a complete picture of someone in an instant, while we need to know them more. I must say that every person has two types of personality in their appearance. They are always two types. Now, the way you are behaving at home, you do not behave like that outside and sometimes your two different roles are quite surprising to people. This effect of people who are good for someone is also very bad for someone.So, deciding so quickly that the person is good will not be good.I am getting used to this matter. I don't know people. I probably haven't known people until now. I still believe that what the person in front of me is saying is the truth, while I can't even guess his heart. But my family is quite understanding in this matter. But after this incident, my family started facing it with a lot of responsibility and also started telling me what kind of people I should deal with.

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“What do you do when you realize that you were judging someone wrongly ?.”

It is really true that when you find out that you are judging someone wrongly, it hurts a lot. I did too. I felt very sad that night when I found out that I was only doing good and in return for that good, I felt so sad. What was more sad was that because of my wrong decision, my family also had to face people like they don't even talk to them. My family is a very isolated people. They don't like to talk to everyone. But when I told them that we should help someone, my mother said that we shouldn't help everyone, otherwise we can help everyone. Someone can take advantage of our help. But then I explained to my mother that no, mother, there were many good people in the world, but that night when I was deceived, I realized that my mother had more experience in the world. I probably should have listened to her.This does not mean that all people in the world are bad. There are many good people in the world. My decision is still the same today that good people should be helped. But I would say that you should help thoughtfully. First, assess whether they need your help or are they playing with you? . Some people have the nature of cheating and then they keep cheating you. Always avoid such people who can only cheat you.

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“Do you think people's appearance matters?.”

Yes, there is no doubt that appearance is the most important thing because when you don't look good, I don't think anyone should talk to you.You will be told again and again that your appearance does not matter as much as your heart. If your heart is very good, we will like you, but this will be a lie. Never believe this. If you do not look good, I think you will be left out of the big gathering. No one will pay attention to you and you will feel alone. This is what people will not tell you, but you will start failing yourself. Therefore, it is very important to pay attention to your appearance. Your own aura should be so positive that people try to attract you and talk to you. We ourselves make and spoil ourselves. Always keep this in mind and focus on yourself. When you are happy with your heart and mind, only then will you look very beautiful in appearance.

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