Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 80: ...When you're not loved in return

Hello everyone On this occasion I want to participate in a contest held by @steem4nigeria about Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 80: ...When you're not loved in return here is my previous entry I would like to invite friends @vickyson @owulama @ashley-p to participate in this contest

Understanding the Concept of Love and How to Express It

Love is one of the most intricate subjects in human life. It transcends a romantic context to love for family, friends and even all humanity in general love. Love can be deep for someone, pure feeling or just real acts of love and caring.

Love can also mean something in the sense of a ruthless sublime patience, for no longer any love interest shows with equal gifts.

For me; Loveis the essence of humans uniting, reinforce social cohesion and provides a meaning common to life. Real love is about not only having but giving completely. Real examples are parent-child relationships, pure friendships and even acts of kindness to strangers.

Expressing Love

Love = Expressing love is not simply about saying nice things or buying gifts The different ways on showing love to someone, Ok very true.

Love doesn't just mean saying sweet things or giving gifts. There are multiple ways that you can LOVE someone. In families for example, expressing explicit love means dedicating your full attention; hearing them out and even helping someone without them asking.

In friendships it is love by being there for support, the most I mean eventually my friends need that.

With love in a relationship, my very strong hunch is that communication is the answer. I show love in verbal statements, little gestures and doing everything I can to know my partner. Love is not just about giving something big, but also about how we make the people we love feel appreciated and fully accepted.

Responding to Imbalance in Love

In real life, not every love we give will be loved back. Some loves I give are real, and some people do not feel it in the same way or they do not love as much.

That can be extremely painful, I see it as one of the games of life.

One of the things I would never change about my personality is that yes, I believe that you cannot love and expect the same reciprocation. If a person does not return that type of energy in life, I mean well with them. Everyone has their own way of communicating feelings, some people are juggling feelings of their own.

But, if I sense I am being taken for granted or are in an unhealthy relationship then I detach myself with flying colors as well maintain my boundaries. Kindness should not turn into fatigue and an ongoing journey without recognition, true love.

So There Goes Another Best Friend Showing ME How Uncompassionate I Am‎

I try to be compassionate despite all the love imbalance i have gone through. I think world will just want and need a lot more kindness warmheartedness even if it is not gonna be reciprocated. Compassion is not a weakness but signs of the heartfelt we still carry!.

I choose to continue loving in a healthy way, without letting disappointment change who I am. Love, to me, is about giving wholeheartedly, not about counting how much we receive back.