Contest: Courtesy.
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From Pakistan🇵🇰.
“What do you understand by courtesy? Explain.”
“Do you think courtesy is important? Should it be observed? Tell us..”
Yes, absolutely, why not? This is a very important process and I say it should definitely happen in everyone's life. I have seen people curse each other a lot and after that, I have also seen people suffering together. In anger, we know what we say to someone, but always being in control, being sensitive to the time, and choosing our words wisely is also a matter of great ability.Your best behavior is to maintain a friendly environment with others.Courtesy is just not mean that your manners should be good or how much you respect your culture or your traditions.The secret behind this is that it is most important for you to be thoughtful about others. It is very important for you to know about the pain and suffering of others and it is very important for you to have a love for them in your heart.The most important thing is that you have to listen to others, you have to hear about their pain, you have to give them time, you have to understand that their lives are not easy.If you work in an office and your behavior there is quite strict with others, I don't think you can achieve anything. Unless you consider them as your team, unless you consider them as your friends, unless you establish a friendly environment, you will not be able to progress in anything. Your behavior is your number one weapon to be able to talk well with everyone. Due to this attitude, your friend circle also deteriorates and then people start avoiding you.
“Name five instances where courtesy is demanded in your culture.?.”
Here's five indtances where courtesy is demanded in my culture.
The most important thing is that when you meet one of your elders, immediately extend your hands towards them and shake their hands or bow and greet them, and then address them with word "Aap.
After that, the most important thing to keep in mind is that when a guest comes to your house, welcome him with an open heart and then when he sits at the dinner table with you, let him start first and after that always try to eat with your right hand. Eating with the wrong hand is considered quite bad among us.
Talk politely to people you are meeting for the first time, try to understand what they are saying, respond to what they are saying, and invite them to your home with all your open heart and provide them with a great environment.
In public totally avoid holding hands, kiss or hug. Because our environment is not open enough for men and women to do such things together, because we believe that there should be distance between men and women, especially in public places.
Apart from this, the most important thing to keep in mind is not to wear clothes that show off your bare flesh, but rather to wear clothes that cover your body completely and show you in your best shape. Wearing such clothes is considered very wrong among .
“State instances where courtesy was neglected. Maybe you witnessed it or someone told you..”
This has happened many times when you were working together at one place, things like this happen to you every day. I remember well that when I was working in school, our headmistress was quite moody, but whenever.They would have been very angry.There was never a day when she didn't get angry, but I found it very annoying that when she was very angry, if someone greeted her, she wouldn't respond and would pass by in a very angry manner. Because of all this, the atmosphere around her becomes very bad. Because I have always learned from my elders that when someone doesn't respond to your greeting, that person feels very embarrassed and because of which others also start looking at her strangely. It is such a shame that as if she has lost her mind, she often behaves in the same way with us, which was quite strange.So what I have to say about this is that no one told me about it, but I have seen it myself how people disrespect others.And One day this happened to me too because I prefer to be happy. I told Myself that I should not bring the sorrows and troubles of my home to the workplace, but rather end whatever sorrows I have at home and go out in a nice and pleasant atmosphere. When I was in a pleasant atmosphere, our headmasters were also entering. I greeted them with joy and when they saw me with arrogant eye and just leave without saying single word.....I am very worried about situation and only one thing was going on in my mind that how can any human being be so bad? I think they are not bad but still I do not like their attitude at all. They kept failing at all the whole day, even though there was no one there, but I became embarrassed in front of them too."
“.What is your stance when it comes to courtesy? Tell us.”
I think it's very important to be courtesy in your behavior, whether it's a personal or a professional. You should conduct yourself in the same way both at home and outside.Treat other with dignity and respect without knowing their culture or background.
If you put yourself in the shoes of others and think about their feelings and emotions, you will realize that life is not just about your ideas, but they also have their own ideas, and it is very important for you to respect other perspective.
Always keep your voice low while talking to others and choose your words wisely so that your words do not hurt anyone.Because your body language says a lot about you that you can't say.
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