The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen| Can a best friend become a good life partner?
Hello my dear Steemians,
Today I wanted to write for this contest that is running by @sduttaskitchen , here is the link if you are also interested:
To have a good friend means to have someone who shares the same opinion or point of view. There are always people who have same interest, who like same books, have same hobbies. As children we discover that quickly and already then we say that this or that person is my best friend because we are the same. On later stage of course we have a bit different interests and because of nature of becoming older we look for partners in our life. Of course, such feeling like love is important but often if there is more than only love, like you find a person with the same soul, that will make your relationship much stronger and that two people will definitely stay together for long time.
I do believe that you can make something more from initial friendship. Often when we have friends we often work together, we going through making some decisions, there are sometimes some work or projects that we have to go through together. Unwillingly we then spend a lot of time together and through that we support each other and often we then speak about our life, our problem our wishes. That is something that when we go through, we learn each other better and often we then support and respect each other while living through the time of our work and life. We often then find that, yes, that is a person who we could trust and who will always be there for us. That is why often such friendship can become life relationship and become life partners.
The good side of having a friend who then grow into your life partner is that we know the person very well. We know how the person’s character, if they calm and patient or if they easily irritable and how they react in such stressful situation. Those moments will give us an idea if we will like a person in the case if we decide to make the person our life partner. That means if we consider our friend to become our partner we already know what and how our future will be.
The weak side of it, of course, we know how the person is and we should not try to change a person because that will never work. Often we see that in such relationship the sides accepted the character when they were friends but that they try to change or force to change something once they are together. So do not forget that you should just respect and accept rather than try to change and destroy your friendship.
I am inviting following users for contest: @rumanaafroz, @monz122, @uzma4882
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