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Hello my steemit friends i am happy to share my entry for this contest. I always enjoyed writing about my thoughts and lifes experiences because it gives me a chanced to express myself and also learned from others. Today i wants to talk about the greatest lesson i have learned in my lifes who i learned it from and hows it has shaped the way i live today. Life is a beautiful teacher and sometimes one lessons can completely change our direction and thinking.

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What was that great lesson and who did you receive it from?

The greatest lesson i received in my life was patience and hard work always bring results. I learned this lesson from my mother. She is a very strong woman who always faced difficulties with courage. Whenever lifes was hard she nevered gave up and she always told me “Hard work and patiences will make you successful one day.” This lessons became very important for me because lifes is not always easy and sometimes we want quick results. My mother taught me to keeps trying and never stop believing in myself.

At what point in your life did you realize that lesson was so valuable?

I realized the value of this lesson during my studies. I am a student of cardiology and my subjects are very difficult. At first i used to get worried because i could not understand everything easily. I wanted to learn fast but i failed many times. At that point i remembered my mother’s words. I started studying with patience and gave time to myself. Slowly i began to improve and my results got better. That is when i realized that patience and hard work really do brings results. Withouts this lessons i would have given up.

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Do you think that lesson changed the way you see and act in the world?

Yes this lesson completely changed my ways of thinking. Befores i used to becomes upsets when things did not go according to my plans. I used to compare myself with others and feel less confident. Buts after learning the values of patience and hard worked i stopped comparing myselfs and started focusing on my own journeys. Now i believed that success takes times and everyone has their owns pace. This has made me more positives and less worried. I also trys to see challenges as opportunities to grows instead of problems.

Which of all the lessons you received was the hardest to understand and put into practice?

The hardest lessons for me was forgiveness. It was very difficults for me to forgive peoples who hurt me. I used to keeps anger in my heart and it mades me unhappy. Even though i knew forgiveness was important i could nots practice it easily. It tooks me years to understand that forgiveness is nots only for others but also for my owns peace. When i finally started forgiving peoples i felts lighter and happier. Buts learning this lessons was nothing easy at all because my emotions always cames in the way.

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If you could talked to your younger self what would you tell them about that lessons that was so hard for you to learn?

If i could talked to my younger self i would say: “Do not keep angers in your heart for too long. Life is too shorts to waste in hate. Forgive peoples not because they deserve it buts because you deserve peace. The sooner you learn forgiveness the happiers you will be.” I would also tell my younger self thats carrying grudges only makes life heavier. It is betters to lets go and move forward.

What lesson would you like to pass on to your children or to whoever is reading this right now?

The lesson i want to pass on to my future children or to the readers of this post is very simple but very powerful: Be patient work hard and never lose hope. Life will not always give you what you want immediately but if you keep working honestly you will reach your goals. Also remembered to be kind and forgives others. Success is not only abouts reaching a destination it is also about keeping your heart pures and your mind peaceful.

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Life is a journeys fulls of lessons. Some are easy to learn while others take years to understand. The greatest teaching i received from my mother was about patience and hard work and this lesson has helped me in my studies in my personal life and in the way i see the world. Forgiveness was the hardest lesson for me but it also brought me peace once i learned it. If i could go back i would tell my younger self to forgive earlier and not waste time in anger. Finally to anyone reading this my advice is to believe in patience hard work kindness and forgiveness. These lessons will guide you to a successful and peaceful life.

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