For Guys, II.

in BDCommunity5 months ago

...continued... from [Part 1]


Well, there will be trouble if you have not developed your mind to handle intelligent discussion. Don't go and embarrass yourself when you have engaged her at first to know she is vast. You can start now too by reading wide and learning more about areas and topics that interests her.

Go back home and spend time with your family, don't choke her, when you share the idea with your friends, don't allow them push you. You know what you want and the perception of you that you want her to see which must be an honest one, then do things with wisdom.

Don't start with gifts, focus on friendship. Don't ever give her the idea that you are trying to buy her over or impress her. You would have lost her before you ever had a chance and if she is the one that likes to take advantage of that, then you might find yourself in trouble.

Show her less than you have. A lady that would love you for who you are would. Honour and respect her sincerely. Just be you.


Many marriages fail today, because of these faulty foundations. They have set the standard so high and couldn't keep up because they didn't do things with wisdom. It would look like the men sold a fake lifestyle to the women. No one deserves this. I know this because I have seen a lot of this. Be honest with her and you'd be shocked at the kind of loyalty you'd get from her.

Your next mission is to get her to like you.


By finding out if the feeling is mutual, if not, just walk away. Don't motivate a lady to like you, you can't handle the pressure of spending a life time motivating a woman to love you. If you can handle just having her as a friend, perfect but if you can't, just take a walk especially if the feeling is not mutual. If you don't allow love to flow naturally, it will always end in disaster.

Be guided.

...The End...


Thank you for your time.

My pen doesn't bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.

Still me,

My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.


Olawalium; (Love's chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor's order.

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