Nuevo concurso: Los caminos de la envidia

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Jealousy is an emotion that grows in the heart of a person, due to which a person suffers a lot of losses.

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(1) Do you know of any real or imaginary case in which jealousy has caused harm?

I have seen many such cases in which people have suffered a lot due to jealousy.

It is about my neighborhood, the families of three brothers live together in the same house with separate portions.

The wives of the three brothers are always busy looking at each other, and keep an eye on each other, who ate what, who cooked what and who brought from the market.

And due to jealousy, they complain to their husbands and do the same work themselves, in this way a lot of money is lost in the house.

And there are also differences between brothers.

Quarrels increase in the house and peace ends.🥺

Let me tell you another serious case. This case is of a husband and wife who were newly married,

The husband's salary was a little less than other members of the house. Whenever he takes his wife out or brings her a gift, his mother gets very jealous of her daughter-in-law and to humiliate her, she keeps on taunting her husband about his low salary. Troubled by all this, one day the daughter-in-law committed suicide. In this way, they had to suffer a huge loss. In this way, jealousy is not only a negative emotion but if it becomes excessive, it can be quite destructive.

(2) Do you agree that there is positive jealousy which can promote success and progress?

Yes, there is positive jealousy which can promote success and progress.

Just like jealousy has a bad effect on a person, in the same way sometimes jealousy also has a good effect on a person.

When a good person sees someone in front of him progressing, or someone's wrong statement hurts his heart.

So jealousy comes in his mind and he also thinks of progressing himself, and due to his goodness and positive thinking, without wishing bad for him, he works hard and reaches heights and achieves success, but in today's time such people are rarely seen.😄

(3) Have you ever felt that they are jealous of you, or have you been jealous of someone else?

Yes, there are many people around us who are jealous of us, and also behave very well in front of us, it becomes very important for us to understand such people to avoid huge losses.
Jealousy can happen to anyone at any time, yes I too was jealous in my childhood, a friend of my mother had come to our house, her daughter was very cute, mother was loving her a lot by holding her in her lap.

I was not feeling good seeing all this and I was jealous of that girl.

My father understood my jealousy and then he explained to me,

dear, fire first heats and burns the place where it is kept and acid first burns the vessel in which it is kept, in the same way, evil thoughts of jealousy first harm the person in whose mind.

This girl has come to our house for a short while, then mummy will love you only, then why are you burning yourself by being jealous.

I understood my father's point very well and from that day onwards, I stopped being jealous.

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(4) If we all had the same things, if we lived in a world where no one lacked anything, would jealousy exist?

First of all, it would never have been possible that everyone would have the same things and no one would lack anything, and even if it were so, jealousy would still exist. Jealousy is a feeling that is nurtured in the heart of a person, which arises when a person lacks the qualities, skills, rights or achievements of another person and he wants that the other person also lacks this or that no other person should be superior to him.

It is not only caused by someone having more things, it can also be caused by someone's beauty or living style.

Jealousy brings out the evils of a person, it can be in anyone at any time. A person suffering from jealousy is always unhappy. He remains unhappy seeing the happiness of others instead of looking at his own happiness.

A person suffering from jealousy is easily attracted towards evils and gets involved in them.

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