Sometimes, silence is gold.

in Project HOPE4 years ago

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One of the most basic needs of human beings throughout life is to interact with other people (who may be very close or very distant). Each individual has their own way of doing this and everyone tries to maintain some connection with people who, for some reason, make him feel good. Interacting is essential, although many people are naturally introspective.

However, in many moments there is no need to say anything. There are some very peculiar situations where our silence really is worth gold and that moment where nothing is said is something much more important than all the advice that could have been given. Throughout our lives we learn when to speak, and how to speak. It is a natural learning and even if it is not always an easy task... It is important.

In certain situations, it is necessary for people to learn to be silent so that they can give the best advice to themselves and others. At other times, learning to keep silent prevents unnecessary words from being spoken and some kind of conflict from being created. As you can see, sometimes silence really is worth something.

Be smart, be more careful with your words and understand that not always saying something really matters... Because many times, those who really know you and want your problem to be solved, can just stay by your side without saying a word or just speaking at the right times what really needs to be said (often it doesn’t give you the way you want it, but the way it has to be).


A veces, el silencio es oro.

Una de las necesidades más básicas del ser humano a lo largo de la vida es interactuar con otras personas (que pueden ser muy cercanas o muy distantes). Cada individuo tiene su propia forma de hacer esto y todos intentan mantener alguna conexión con personas que, por alguna razón, lo hacen sentir bien. Interactuar es esencial, aunque muchas personas son introspectivas por naturaleza.

Sin embargo, en muchos momentos no es necesario decir nada. Hay algunas situaciones muy peculiares en las que nuestro silencio realmente vale oro y ese momento en el que no se dice nada es algo mucho más importante que todos los consejos que se pudieron haber dado. A lo largo de nuestra vida aprendemos cuándo hablar y cómo hablar. Es un aprendizaje natural y aunque no siempre sea una tarea fácil... Es importante.

En determinadas situaciones es necesario que las personas aprendan a guardar silencio para poder darse los mejores consejos a sí mismos y a los demás. En otras ocasiones, aprender a guardar silencio evita que se pronuncien palabras innecesarias y se cree algún tipo de conflicto. Como puede ver, a veces el silencio realmente vale algo.

Sea inteligente, tenga más cuidado con sus palabras y comprenda que no siempre decir algo realmente importa... Porque muchas veces, aquellos que realmente lo conocen y quieren que se resuelva su problema, pueden simplemente quedarse a su lado sin decir una palabra o simplemente hablar en el momento adecuado, lo que realmente se necesita decir (a menudo no te da la forma que quieres, sino la forma en que tiene que ser).


Algumas vezes, o silêncio é ouro.

Uma das necessidades mais básicas dos seres humanos ao longo da vida é interagir com as outras pessoas (que podem estar muito próximas ou muito distantes). Cada indivíduo tem à sua própria maneira de fazer isso e todos tentam manter alguma conexão com as pessoas que, por alguma razão, lhe fazem se sentir bem. Interagir é essencial, ainda que muitas pessoas sejam naturalmente introspectivas.

No entanto, em muitos momentos não é preciso dizer nada. Existem algumas situações bem peculiares onde o nosso silêncio realmente vale ouro e esse momento onde nada é dito é algo muito mais importante que todos os conselhos que poderiam ter sido dados. Ao longo da nossa vida nós vamos aprendendo quando nós devemos falar, e como nós devemos falar. É um aprendizado natural e mesmo que nem sempre seja uma tarefa fácil... É importante.

Em determinadas situações é preciso que as pessoas aprendam a se calar para que elas possam dar os melhores conselhos pra elas mesmas e para os outros. Em outros momentos, aprender a se calar evita que palavras desnecessárias sejam ditas e que algum tipo de conflito seja criado. Como é possível perceber, às vezes o silêncio realmente é algo que vale ouro.

Sejam inteligentes, seja mais cautelosos com suas palavras e entendam nem sempre dizer algo realmente importa... Porque muitas vezes, quem realmente te conhece e deseja que o seu problema seja resolvido, pode apenas ficar do seu lado sem dizer nenhuma palavra ou falar apenas nos momentos certos o que realmente precisa ser dito (muitas vezes não dá maneira que você quer, mas sim, da maneira que tem que ser).

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HI @wiseagent
Silence is also a way to communicate something. Many times people don't want to be told anything, just to be there.
This point, of keeping silent is something important in communication.

Yes, that is a very important point of view to be said about the theme of this post.

Thanks for your comment, @josevas217.

Hello friend @wiseagent, you are right sometimes you should keep silent, especially when we are in front of people with bad intentions, because they transgress the information, but I think we should know how to say things, because there are people who consider themselves sincere but are cruel with their words

If we have tact when saying things I think that will allow a fluid communication, as they say there talking people understand each other and clear accounts keep friendships.

See you later dear friend, good job !

... especially when we are in front of people with bad intentions...

This tip is priceless, @amestyj... Very well said. Thanks for this great comment.

Perfectly said. Sometimes some people underatted the power of silent and so they suffer from the effect of lousy

The power of silence is much stronger than we can imagine.

Thanks for stopping by, @mandate.

Eu diria que quase sempre o silêncio é ouro! xD

You cannot understand how much I don't like people who just talk too much anyhow and at anytime it is really annoying, although I try to understand that it might just be their nature but certainly it can be improved upon, especially those who feel they can always insult any body.

Well, @eni-ola... I guess I could say that I undertand you, haha!

Thanks for this nice comment.

Very accurate your publication friend, many times we just want to be heard or simply be hugs, knowing that there is someone who accompanies us in the process. It happens to me that sometimes I just want to cry or I just want to be in my bed and not do anything, but neither do I want to give explanations or talk to anyone, just know that I am not alone. Silence also saves us from many things, for example, from losing our jobs when we want to insult our bosses hahaha. Greetings!

Well said, @franyeligonzalez. Another great comment coming from you.

Thanks a lot!

 4 years ago 

Hi @wiseagent

I shall share this post with my wife :)

OMFG... Hahahahaha!!

Just be careful, @crypto.piotr! ;P

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