From intention to action
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Today I received a call from a friend who wanted to share an event in his life, I listened carefully and at the end of the conversation I did not hesitate to talk about it.
He had had a meeting with his boss, who always treated him somewhat harshly or somewhat grudgingly for his sarcastic attitudes (something he understood a few days ago that he used to do and that was causing him problems) and decided in that meeting to change his attitude, listen more, shut his mouth when it provoked him to say everything he thought and what cost him the most, to be silent before the amount of arrogant answers that provoked him to say and he knew that if only one of them came out, everything would collapse.
At the end of the meeting, many congratulated him and recognized this achievement, but no one knew how difficult it had been for my friend.
Why do I want to bring this and tell you? Many times we believe that we are not capable of certain things, behaviors, thoughts, attitudes, and a myriad of knowledge and tools that we possess and little we take them to help us. Instead, we stay with those routes that we travel day by day and that we always thought were for the best.
Many times we create barriers, great walls that we build over the years and bad experiences that make us protect ourselves from our environment, people, friends, people we love, for not letting these barriers be breached, so that we can be harmed in some way.
Those fears of failure, of being wrong, of being beaten, of not achieving, are often responsible for this type of behavior or reflexes that push us away or bring us problems.
It is time to look for them and invite them to come out of you (not an easy task) we have allowed them for many hours, days, years, to remain in us and we have made them strong, but we are also the ones who must AND CAN take away that power we once unknowingly gave them.
Today is a good time to take them out and say goodbye, to make a purpose and be able to start without them in our lives, and remember that you are perfect, you were born perfect, but sometimes circumstances make us be different from what we are really meant to be.
Raise your face and shine, make of yourself that model to be followed by many, and do not stop starting to tear down those walls that have not let you move forward or have kept you away from what you really deserve, from an intention to an ACTION.
A big hug, see you next time.
Greetings @mariu.espinoza, very interesting phrase that you share with us "Those fears of failure, to be wrong, to be beaten, to not achieve, are often responsible for this type of behavior or reflexes that push us away or bring us problems".
Sometimes we must be beaten by life to understand that changes are important and necessary to allow us to move forward in search of better horizons. Thank you for your contribution
I always say it, experience is the best life teacher. Once a person has gotten a bad experience, it is quite difficult for that person to make such mistake twice.
Hello @mariu.espinoza!
Very thoughtful post. We must work so that our resolutions not only remain in the mind but that we act and change those we like to improve, we must not miss opportunities and be open to change. Thanks for sharing, greetings!
Very true. Some people only make big and great ideas in their mind and never try to them a reality at all.
Excellent demonstration of 'being able to do what you want even if it costs a little, it is not easy but it will surely help you.
thanks for sharing.
As the saying goes: from words to deeds there is a long way to go.
That confirms what you explain so well in this post, that is to say that from the intention we have to act there is a long way until we get to act.
Greetings friend and thank you for your contribution.
I like that quote a lot. And it is very true. It is quite a long way to make your ideas/dreams/words a reality. You need to be determined, dedicated and committed.
This is the most important word from intention to action , if you don't have intention or dream in your life you cannot achieve anything in your life. We need to dream big.
Yeah, very true. We need to dream big and ensure we put in efforts to make sure we make that big dream a reality
In life we should not be afraid of failure once we do that we will not create some barriers we are not suppose to create that will later affect us.
Part of growing and believing in us, thank you for commenting.
I believe failure is mindset. If we believe that our failures are steps to achieving our goal, we won't see our failures as failures but steps to achieving our goal. Thanks for sharing this awesome article with us @mariu.espinoza