Abuse of men by their partners

In many parts of the world there is talk about the mistreatment of women, the weaker sex, those defenseless human beings that every man mistreats, even considered in some countries as high rates of mortality and gender abuse.

But, what happens when the roles are flipped (mind you, I do not want to excuse or celebrate the abuse of women, but I want us to see what happens when the abuser is the woman) this part of the abuse is little known, my dad used to joke with the man who after being beaten by his wife went to file a complaint and many laughed about it, but, we are not so far from reality, that this problem is a source of ridicule that leads to a number (you would be amazed to know how high it is) of high statistics.

This type of abuse is common and sometimes men (like women) do not realize that they are living it, because they allege the character and the type of upbringing of women, and these "small" slips are overlooked, many believe that it is only the physical aspect, but there is the psychological, sexual, mental and verbal, each with characteristics so similar to the abuse of women.

I expose several items that you can identify if you are being abused by your partner.

*.- Always accuses you of being unfaithful (without being unfaithful) and jealousy is very high.

*.- Tells you that if he hits you it is because you deserve it.

*.- She disposes of your time, you are not the owner of deciding what to do in free time.

*.- Limits your space and time, e.g. does not let you study or go to work.

*.- Limits, laughs at and mocks your hobbies or interests to the point of destroying them.

*.- She somehow forces you to have sex only when she wants you to have sex.

*.- Control all household expenses, to the point that you manage NOTHING.:

*.- She humiliates you, insults you, degrades you as a man and human being verbally.

*.- She threatens you with a weapon or to take her own life because of you.

*.- She controls the clothes you wear, where and when to wear them..

Perhaps many more that are given by cultural customs, the harmony of the couple is given by two, it is an institution where agreements and respect should be the first thing, if you have identified 2 or more of this list, talk to your partner, expose what you think and if it does not work psychological help is a good alternative and if they do not reach agreements, the legal is a good way.

Every human being is worthy of respect; it is a basis for preserving, building and initiating healthy relationships and harmonious societies.

See you next time.