Ladies contest: 🤔How jealous are you?🤷🏻‍♀️

in Steem For Ladies4 months ago (edited)


Hello all beautiful ladies 🌷

How are you all ? Hope you all are doing great and happy healthy in your lives I'm also fine here to participate in this very unique contest which is organize by @pandora2010 thanks to her , this is very commonly seen things specially in women jealousy factor we can't deny it , what kind of problem she faced and tell in the post I have been gone through the same I can relate my self and sometimes I don't have words to make them understand I just let them be.


🌺 Are you jealous with your friends and partner? Why?

It's complicated for me , I'm not jealous with my friends but one of my friend was very jealous with my other friends if I talk them or go with them and if I talked in front of her she doesn't like it and felt jealous in the end she never talked to me and always blamed me for this she also has lots of friends she talked with them I never feel jealous why would I feel jealous?? She has her own choices she has some her own private life of she comfortable with them why I would feel jealous with her friends or her?? I think this is some teenager problem she always make me feel jealous to talked about her friends they are like this or that sometimes I thought if they are very good with her so what I'm doing with her ? Let her be with them so the factor of jealousy is in her she felt and she try to made me feel the same way.

She feels jealous of my other friends 😭

🌺 Do you think his jealousy is normal or does it have to do with the insecurity that exists between ourselves?

On some point it's not normal I felt if she felt jealous of my friend she jealous of me someway, jealousy is not about insecurities for other it's our own insecurities we shown up to others by blame them , she became very insecure obout me and it's bothered me a lot , she don't wanna listen about anyone else, she hatey other friends pictures and point out the bad things only she never accept their existing in my life but I don't understand why? She was my childhood friend and I told her thousand of time no one can replace your place , obviously we are now growing and we meet lots people in working places people become friends its not that they become my best friends just friends, but she always do argue and become toxic to me.


🌺 Has your jealousy brought you problems?

Definitely , so many problems brought just because of her jealousy, in the end we are not together now, she always argue and become toxic person to me I can't be with her and the blame is on me that Im happy with other friends and my other friends have no issues about who is choose to be my friend they know where are they what their places, but she created issues about if I talked to someone else or if I go with them and one day I just share my friend wedding pictures I was just sharing because I shared everything with her she thought I'm trying to made her jealous she always thought negative about me so it's better for us that we just live our own lives happy with each other because I can't help it. How much I could explain to her. Her jealousy habit was the reason for our estrangement.


🌺 What have you done to improve that kind of feeling?

If I have this feeling I definitely work on it , the problem is if I feel jealous i just let the things gone, jealous feeling came on me of course, but I don't let them dominate me and try to focus on other things , I don't blame others why I blame them the jealousy is in me , I feel jealous so it's better to become a jealous person just focus on other things like ,if I'm jealous with my friends I talk to them less one is a week and don't ask about other ls just talk about us , and if I feel jealous in my work place I will more focus in my work it's better for me ,and if I jealous with specific person I will make my self better then her. It's not an easy tasks but it's very important for our mental health because jealousy become hate in the end.

So this is my post about the theme hopefully you will like it and thank you for reading I would like to invite @suboohi @mrsfurqan for participation.
Kind regards: @kunwal

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Haha itni solid jealousy thora ajeeb b hy lakin funny b hy😂is lehaz sy tou ap usko akaily milti hongi or friends get together mai wo jalti bhunti hi rehti hogi😂

 4 months ago 

Hahah yrr 😂 Sahi pakra wo or main alag Milty thy or Whatsapp le hide kar k status lagana parta tha k wo na dekh lyn Matlab is Had tak jealousy 🙄🙏 magar aeisi dostiyan nhi chalti yr ap kisi bhi rishty ko baandh k nhi Rakh sakty ab nhi is se bat 🥲

Haha i can imagine kya hota hoga, itni insecurities, isi liye meri starting sy koe friend nh hy na school na college, i was a shy person who spend passed life in shyness, larkiyon ko chahiye thi bht zyada bolny wali aik dost, meri phr school sy graduation tk aik friend rhi wo b meri cousin 😂ab wo b america apny bachon mai bzy.

 4 months ago 

Aww cute , but acha khasa bolti ap or acha bolti Hain ✨ chalayn main steemit friend TU Hun hi jitna bolna mery sath bol kia karyn no one can judge you here main TU bilkul nhi 😂❣️

Hahaha so sweet of you ❤️ pori baat btana bhol gae ab shadi ho gae hy tou bolna b aa gya hy😂smjh gae hongi ap😁

 4 months ago 

Hahaha han ye reh gaya tha Batana han han main samajh gyi wo TU aa hi jata hai or zaroori bhi 😅


 4 months ago 

First of all, I apologize for not taking care of you immediately, I hope you don't feel jealous, hehehe but I was fulfilling other commitments, the good thing is that my women's team has already stopped by to offer you their support.
I tell her that this is how my classmate is, I don't call her friend, because in reality I don't completely like her way of being and I do understand her, because the episode she recounts reminds me of how she gets jealous when her best friend wants to talk to me .
I agree when you say that jealousy can harm mental health.

Thank you for your very detailed participation and full of teaching 🤗❤️

Good luck in the contest 🤞🏻
Many Blessings..🙏🏻

 4 months ago (edited)

Haha no I'm not jealous and thank you for reviewing my post ✨🌸❤️

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