Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week4- Transparency in Marriage.
Hello greetings to you all, my name is @newtonb. I hope and trust that the week is unfolding smoothly at your corner by the grace of God. So I will be taking part in this contest organized by @steem4nigeria on the topic Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week4- Transparency in Marriage. Thank you for reading in advance.
Transparency can be defined as the ability to be open and withholding nothing from an individual or group of individuals.
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Transparency is when a person is not afraid to tell the truth to another irrespective of what they will think about it. Transparency seeks truth and not approval. It means that someone who practice the art of transparency prefers you to know the truth even if it will not favor him/her. Individuals who cannot hide the truth, and are very confident in supporting what is right are referred to as being transparent.
In marriages today the need for transparency has been one of the greatest request from partners. This is because most times partners will tend to hide certain things from their spouses which makes transparency very difficult. But it is very important to note that for a marriage life to be healthy or successful, transparency is inevitable.
You can't expect your partner to trust you when you are hiding things from them. Transparency begets trust. When people who are in a relationship commit themselves to be transparent, such marriages will last longer than those with less transparency. For example, in marriage your partners phone is his or her privacy, no doubt about that but. It will be a problem if a partner can't use the others phone because of insecurities, there should be transparency enough in such a way that even if one party wants to use the others phone there will be no fear of suspicious activities.
Okay, personally I think that in marriage if , one party finds out that the other is keeping secrets, he/she should openly ask the partner about it. I think that dialogue and conversations has always been a major tool to solve misunderstandings and disputes in marriage. And if it gets to a point whereby the spouse doesn't want to talk, I suggest he or she should see marriage counselor.
Yes, I have been in a relationship before that had transparency issues. The girl I was dating was not totally true with me. I discovered that she was seeing someone else even when we were still together but when I confronted her about it she bluntly denied it.
I had evidences and reasons for saying so but she refused the allegations. Well, I didn't fret I held my peace knowing and hoping that hopefully it was just a misunderstanding and that things will be all fine but to my greatest dismay things only became more unfavorable. The trust between us broke as a result of that and so I had to end it. Few weeks later, there she was with this Same guy i asked her about, she was already all over the place with him. So I said i feel it was lack of transparency that destroyed our relationship.
Well , there's this saying which says "nothing Is hidden under the sun", which means that one day it will surely come out to the knowledge of every one. So truth will always remain the truth no matter how long it takes It will come out in one way or the other.
Your post is very relevant and Important In the context of married life. I completely agree that openness and transparency is very Important To build strong trust between partners.
Being committed To sharing information and not hiding important things helps create a healthy and harmonious climate in a marriage. When partners feel that they can trust each other and know they have nothing To hide, it can strengthen the emotional bond and build a solid foundation.
You also highlight the importance of privacy and boundaries In relationships. Having enough trust In each other To respect each other's privacy is an integral part of being open in marriage. Your partner should be able to feel comfortable using someone else's phone or having a private space without suspicion or fear.
In marriage, transparency and trust complement each other. With a commitment to sharing, listening, and respecting privacy, relationships can thrive and provide long-lasting happiness.Thank you for this informative and important post. Hopefully it can inspire many people To build a marriage that is transparent and full of trust.
Good luck
Thank you so much for stopping by friend.
Yes transparency is indeed an integral part of marriage or any relationship. It's very important to fully be transparent in a relationship, that's one of the most important requirements for a long lasting and healthy relationship.
Many relationships don't last because both parties still keep secrets to each other , making suspicion inevitable. If Couples can truly learn to hold nothing back from their partners, I think we will have better marriages today and less divorce cases in our world.
Thank you for your amazing input and endless support sir. Remain blessed!
Thank you so much @wilmer1988 for the support.
Another person ability to be open and withholding nothing actually define transparency.
Transparency in marriage, relation and some dealing is very important to increase trust and loyalty. Thanks you for shearing amd best of luck on the contest.
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