Assalamu Alykum dear ❤️

Hello friends! How are you all I hope you are all well. May Allah Almighty increase your life, wealth, honuor and dignity. And keep you away from all troubles, worries. Today's topic is very interesting, because I, as a mother, know better how to train children. I am in the age group where children are moving towards their future, so come on I have learned from my life experiences how children should be trained in the way that the mistakes I have made should not be made by future parents. And train the child best because having children is the capital of the nation and raising children is the best. They should be familiar with the principles of religion and world research, and should know about every activity of the child so they start, and I hope you will like this parenting 😘💓 experience of mine.

Children are an invaluable gift for parents. God's blessings on His servants are innumerable. Children like flowers are the greatest blessing. Raising a healthy and cheerful child is not an easy task. Many of us do not value parenting as much as we do what we understand.

Come or what our parents did to us. The importance of training children is very high. The training of children is considered as an important responsibility of parents.

• The mother's lap is the child's first school.
• The mother acts as a mentor for the child.
• A mother should take care of her child's training from the day the child is born.
• Every mother must breastfeed her child so that mother's love is born in the child.
• Always keep a good baby name.
• Avoid embarrassing things in front of children.
• Introduce the real creator to the child.
• Never curse children.
• Protect children from bad friends.
• Make children feel sorry for their mistakes.
• Get the child into the habit of charity.
  Some positive aspects in light of my children's training experiences.

Your attitude matters

Whether it's about your own health or how you treat people. Because our children learn from us. We must avoid reacting immediately to our children. And think about the consequences of that attitude.

Too much softness can ruin them

Love does not spoil children. In fact, what spoils them is what we give them instead of love. Gives too much softness or gives more material things.

Participate in your child's life

We need to know the mental, physical and spiritual activity of our children. How is our child? How much have you learned? Change your upbringing as your children get older. Keep changing your upbringing as your children develop.

Remember that age changes require a change in children's attitudes. Under these circumstances, prudent action is required.

Establish and enforce children's rules

If we do not bring discipline in the lives of children at an early age, it will be difficult for them to take care of themselves when they grow up. When we are not with them, whether it is day or night, Must know
Where is my baby?
Who is my baby with?
What is my child doing?

Give children freedom

Giving children even a little bit of freedom while living by the rules will give them self-confidence. Both control and freedom in life are essential for success.

Be consistent

The most important thing in discipline is consistency - if your principles change daily, our child's misbehavior is due to us and not to them.
Avoid beatings
According to scientists, children who are beaten by their parents in infancy quarrel with other children - and parents who do not trust their children learn to cheat.

Treat the child with respect

The best way to earn respect from children is to give them respect, treat them with love and compassion, give them importance. Give importance to their opinion. Listen to them carefully. And keep them happy whenever possible.

By adopting all these principles, we can build a good society because society is made up of individuals and these are the children of our future ۔ pay special attention to their training all these things that I did. These are based on my personal experiences.

Thanks to all
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