Happiness is Within Yourself, By Always Being Grateful
If for example he looks outside, comparing himself with other people. Why are these two things also the only way, or is there another way for us to feel that we are happy?
What is certain is not to be an introvert, because introverts do not solve problems. That's why the majority of crazy people are people who are hampered in their communication, therefore avoid introverts. That's why religious people sometimes when they have problems often isolate themselves.
The Prophet did not live alone, but with friends. Because with friends, even though they do not provide solutions, they reduce the burden. This means expressing fatigue, conveying various sadnesses, various stories, that's also a heart-to-heart. So keep sharing your stories on Steemit, because, this is also one of the ways to make ourselves happy, God willing.
The second is taking care of the stability of the inner temperature, namely our contact with the one who created it. Because happiness is in the hands of Allah. And Allah knows the place of each person's happiness. This means that people can be happy because of money, but they can also be sad because of money. There are people who are not at peace because they have a lot of money, there are. So even when they sleep they are still guarded by security guards, there must be dogs, there must be alarms, there must be CCTV, all sorts of things.
Sometimes even the bajaj driver can sleep like crazy, even though he only gets a deposit for enough food for that one day. This means that happiness is not owned, monopolized by rich people, poor people can be happy. Rich people can also be happy, beautiful people can be happy, ugly people can be happy.
But talking about happiness, there are many things that can make a @midiagam happy, I'm also confused if I explain it. From many things I try to be grateful, even from the smallest things. Actually, the more I grow up, the more I learn how to appreciate the little things around us.
In the past, I probably thought more like "Oh, I have to get this, I have to do this, I have to do that, I'm very happy."
So I was less grateful for the things around me. Now, small things like seeing my mother gather, healthy, my brother is healthy. So, things like that, I feel that I can live my days more relaxed.
This is a true story, there is a woman who was taught by a cat. Once she was in a state of suffering because she was alone, in an extraordinary state of being left by her husband, she was in a cold state, incredibly lonely. Suddenly there was a cat. And the cat with a very mellow voice "meow...meow." Suddenly, amazingly, at that time there was a cup of milk and she drank half, and the other half was given to the cat. And when the cat, this is a true story, right. The cat finished the milk, she just meowed, became different. And the cat stroked the legs of the milk giver. Amazingly, she was only given half of the milk, the rest was only her, and the cat enjoyed it incredibly. Meanwhile, the woman still has milk in the refrigerator, still has her own milk, has everything.
This is a story in the desert, how she has red milk, please don't think badly. It means that happiness is not big or small.
How a cat can be so grateful, so thankful to someone who is only given half a glass of milk, that's extraordinary.
Well, we are given extraordinary blessings. So sometimes learning can come from everywhere, sometimes we don't realize it.
I once met someone who Alhamdulillah seemed really rich. I just felt like I saw everything had been given to him. Then he was happy, that's what I think. But then he thought like this, "I'm happier seeing you @midiagam, you can still go home quickly."
But sometimes I'm confused when I meet him, it's a bit difficult. I don't have time, sometimes even my sleep time is taken by his worldly activities, because I have to work.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam
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