Hello friend
Strictness makes the children more discplined making progress and making good decisions too. It makes these kids have a sense of urgency in making sure the solve issues potential solutionists. It also makes the children progressive in life. You stressed that strictness makes these kids fall into depression and in most cases they end up lying to please their parents and avoiding their parents from scolding them. Indeed strictness moulds character and builds resilience. Success in the challenge my dear friend