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Good morning friends,
I quickly want to talk about an aspect of a relationship - which holds that a man can die for his girlfriend or fiancee or whatever she may be to her. We all are in one relationship or the other and so we might have or be experiencing some things which may put us in the state of having such feelings or about to develop it.
Yesterday, on facebook, I read a story, very pathetic - "a guy's picture laying flat and lifeless on the ground was posted. Looking closely at him, happened to be very familiar to men - PHILLIP. He was in a lower class during my Polytechnic days. I've seen him talking and could tell from his exposure he shouldn't be a victim of such circumstance from which he was said to have died.
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Reading through the story, he was reportedly said to have poisoned himself. Why? Because his girlfriend deserted him for another guy. I was saddened at first to see a friend, young guy like him kicked the bucket to fast. But on the other hand i felt like he is the most stupid guy i've seen for taking his life because of a creature on skirt. My question goes thus:
In this world of today, does women really worth dying for? And vice versa
Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying it is wrong in general but my concern about these whole thing is very affirmative of the fact that it doesn't worth it. There are two scenarios here. One: the guy in question took his life in an abnormal way which was as a result of the unfaithfulness of the other partner. That's suicidal - a big sin, and the sin of suicide is unforgiven. Second is otherwise, where the other partner is in danger (a point of death) and needs to be spared.
Here, I'm much particular about the first scenario.
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As long as your girlfriend or boyfriend left you for another, no matter how you may be possessed or soaked in love, you gotta let it die there. Such person doesn't have remain in your memory any longer. This happens a lot. But it doesn't have to be the end of the road for the aggrieved. If he or she loves you, they won't live in the first place. Rather, they would resolve to settle things or find solutions rather than breaking it up or desertion except for a situation where one party is pushed to the extreme end of the wall and all they could do is to press the reset button.
Yeah! It hurts to see the loved one gone, when you don't both agree to break it up, and they just walked away leaving only their shadow. But never should it hurt to the extent of thinking about suicide. The world is becoming medically advanced to still be in such sick condition.
Tell me what you think about this as per your take on Phillip's death. I'll be glad to read from you.
Foolishness if he dirinks much
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