Ahhh... I am technically in there. I have seriously considered hosting a contest called "Catch Fishy In Chat Before She Runs Back Out!"
I have an anxiety disorder that I usually manage quite well, but there is something about those chats that just sets me on edge, badly. I am working on it, I go in and look around but I hardly ever say anything. If I can get my $#!+ together, I will look for you in there!