So many of us in this truth and freedom movement have good intentions, we all want to see a better World for future generations that's for sure, but I also feel that many of us are missing a trick, and the more I think about it the more I believe that society is set to keep us from looking inside of ourselves for peace and happiness. There are distractions everywhere, a constant stream of mindless entertainment to take us away from what could be the biggest change we could make for the Planet, and that is ourselves.

The reason I say this is up until a couple of years ago I was very angry with the World, don't get me wrong my intentions were pure and I definitely wanted to expose the horrors that I was uncovering. But if I am being totally honest I would say there was a part of me that was also projecting my own internal anger and frustrations. Maybe it gave me an excuse to let loose, a vent if you like for what was going on inside.

I feel this is what we are now seeing in the collective also, a population of traumatised people who all have their own stories which are unhealed. Maybe its abuse, abandonment, betrayal, whatever the wounds are in the person chances are they are not healed. Why is that? Well as I have said society is set up to keep us from our internal Worlds, and if we have unhealed traumas there are plenty of mindless activities to take our attention away from what needs to be looked at, be it shopping (they don't call it retail THERAPY for nothing!) sports, or video games etc Also society has us thinking that what you LOOK like is the most important aspect of self. This 'selfie' society is so narcissistic in its obsession with appearance it beggars belief! Gyms are packed to the rafters however emotional work is out the window because of course nobody wants to do it (particularly men)! I get why, who wants to face the dark night of the soul? No many, because it pulls up everything people have been suppressing their entire lives.

The issue is you can avoid this work all you like but to understand that your life experiences are based around what is going on in your subconscious mind is the first part to getting what you want also. We draw in people and circumstances based on our unhealed wounds as I have said many times before. If you have a deep betrayal wound from childhood then chances are you will draw in someone who may betray you. The Universe will keep giving you the lesson until you heal it.

There is no papering over the cracks with this stuff, no 'New Age' guru who tells you to just think 'love and light' or 'positive' is going to reach the depths of your internal World. I have seen and heard from clients in the inner child sessions I facilitate how absolutely genius the subconscious mind is and how it stores deep traumas in a way in which has served to 'protect' the child at the time.

What happens is during any kind of trauma a childs mind will fracture into a 'protector' part so the child doesn't have to experience that pain again. For example one of my parts was I could be quite defensive, this is all well and good as a child but it doesn't serve us as adults to keep these same protectors into adulthood. These can also be known as 'trigger points'. So what we effectively have is a population of adults all triggering each others protectors. Indeed many relationships are a constant exchange of projecting unhealed traumas onto each other!

So as we start to become aware of huge deceptions and truths in our World when are we going to face the ultimate truth which is ourself? How can we expect truth and freedom when we are not even honest with ourselves? This work is the most difficult challenge a person can face, but at the same time the most transformative and powerful. Nobody is 100% healed myself including, its always ongoing. But when I started this healing path a few years back my life has changed, and that includes attracting better people and experiences into it. I am no longer projecting out like I used to, I am playing my part in healing the World from a much more balanced and calm space these days.

I feel its the number one thing that we can do is to sort ourselves out first, there is that old saying that goes 'you can't help others unless you help yourself first'. We need to be doing this work from an authentic space because otherwise are we not just hypocrites? Saying there is unbalance in others when there is in ourselves? Food for thought.

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