Men imagine big breasts, women lie on wool, men want now, women ask for foreplay, men do not care about rumen when sex, women attach great importance to buttocks. Sexologists explain: What are the differences between men and women in ways of having sex?
Gaps and differences between men and women are found in many areas of life: food, entertainment, perceptions about money, cleanliness - as well - are also present in ways of having sex.
Men imagine big breasts, women imagine wool, men want sex now, women want foreplay, men yearn for oral sex, women for the surrounding ambience.
The differences lie in the different physical structure between men and women and social education. Yes, but generalizing that there are differences between men and women with regard to ways of having sex may wrong many women and men. This is because many women specifically want sex and behave more "masculine". On the other hand, there are quite a few men whose sexual relationship is directly and strongly related to emotion, such as women.
However, we tried to figure out the difference in how to have sex between the sexes. We wanted to examine differences in the "excitation" factors of men and women, who cared more about the surrounding atmosphere during sex, what differences in fantasies, and what did the parties expect in the first encounter?
Difference in libido
Sexologists make it clear that there is a fundamental difference between men and women with regard to sexual desire. Men have a higher level of testosterone so they want to have sex all the time.
Women also have testosterone, but when women change the menstrual cycle of the hormonal cycle, so that there are days increase their sexual desire, and there are days when there is a decrease in sexual desire.
There are women who suffer from hormonal problems so that their sexual desire is high all the time, and the opposite - they have no sexual desire at all.
Sexual desire in women is also related to the man who has sex with him and the ways of having sex. If a man knows how to pet, gives love, looks at the eyes, he can, he can raise women more.
There are men who have strong sexual desire and make them act like animals, instinctively, not out of love. This alienates women. This harms the relationship and distinguishes between men and women.
The therapist explains that a man's passion appears "during sex" while a woman's emotion is present "before sex": "In order to show the emotion of a man, he needs to have sex. After sex, the man becomes more emotionally open."
"Women want emotion first, and then sexual attraction occurs." To excite a woman, she has to talk to her passion, for example, to compliment her, the women being spinered behave quite differently from the ones that are treated as a tool.
The sexual therapist adds that strong sexual desire in men makes their fantasies centered on sex only.
"Men's fantasies usually focus on sex, focusing on the sexual process itself, whereas women's imaginations are more focused on intimate, romantic, sensual relationships than on the sexual process itself.
It is assumed that there is a fundamental difference between men and women in the way in which sexual desire is aroused. "In men, physical gravity works - when a beautiful girl sees excitement and erection.
When a woman is not yet known how the mechanism works and how sexual excitement occurs. If they had known they would have been available now, Viagra for women.
When women enter the equation additional factors. For example, how was the first sexual experience of women and what 'taste' she had left.
"Sex in men is an instinct - a man is always willing to have sex and is easily aroused," says the specialists, who say that in women, sex is a reaction - a reaction to the emotional and emotional process that a person experiences.
Foreplay before sex
Sexologists believe that men need less caresses: "In men, the focus is on sexual organs, they go directly to their organs and their sexual partners, while the focus on women is more on the limbs - until women reach sexual organs, long.
When women, foreplay is more important to reach the state of sexual arousal. For example, some women want hugging, spinning, feeling affectionate, romantic and so on. In men, all these things are less important, usually.
Men tend to skip the foreplay because they want to enter, to satisfy their lust. Women need caresses to enter the sexual process. Without caressing, many women feel that they are like a tool. Today, there has been a clear change and young people are becoming more aware of the need for women to play.
Beauty and appearance
Sometimes, women are more sexually closed, than men, because of self-perception. "Society favors slender, beautiful and young women.
There is social pressure on women to be skinny, and even thin women, at times, are even ashamed of their bodies and think they are not thin enough. A close relationship is known between eating disorders and sexual performance problems.
This social lesson makes women more sexually closed. If a woman does not like her body, it will be difficult to accept her sexuality.
In contrast, most men are usually affected by their outward appearance during sex. Rash or aging does not usually limit the desire of strong men to have sex.
General atmosphere and sex
Women need an appropriate atmosphere to enter the sexual process. "The low light, so you do not see the flaws, the music ... They want the husband to be clean and tidy, to be a party full of feelings, to have no other thoughts and things to worry about. Do I do tomorrow? "
"Women are multi-tasking": they can think of a thousand things while having sex, yet they enjoy it.
But in men, everything simply works more, they do not need a special atmosphere. This is too much for them, and they do not need as much atmosphere as women to get erections and sexual arousal.
Effect of differences on marital relationship
How do differences between men and women affect the first encounter?
In theory, in most cases, a man wants to have sexual intercourse since the first encounter and even before his marriage. While women do not do so, in part because society has decided that if a woman agrees to intercourse in the first encounter, she is considered a prostitute. Fortunately, in practice our society does not allow such cases and does not apply on the ground.
Men want intercourse, because the girl likes them in terms of appearance. But women do not usually agree to accept men if they think the man does not fit them, even if they look beautiful in their eyes.
Finally, how do all these differences affect the marital relationship?
The differences between men and women in terms of sexuality, and in everything else in life, can affect three different forms: Either the difference leads to disintegration of the relationship, the difference leads to conflicts within the relationship, or the couple make a mature dialogue, Center.
The compromise is waiver. If a man wants to have sex seven times a week, and women once a week, the compromise will be four times a week, almost.