How To become more Happy!

in #happines6 years ago (edited)

Hai Guys,... Welcome back to my Steemit blog!

It's been a long time sence i join steemit and just looking around with no productive enought for posting a new blog. i feels like i'm not a writer type of people and it's little bit confuse what kind of content i have to post in this blog. what should i type and say?

I went through many things in early 2018, some made happy and some struggle.

( Oh NO! i just press "Update POst" button accidentaly! lol )

Okay!
So today i want to share for you guys, what i learn , in couples of month in the early year of 2018! yay!

But in this article i want to share to you one topics , it's about Happiness!
( Actually this artikel is more completed if you listen to my Podcast in Bahasa Indonesia ,but i can upload it on Dsound! NOOO!! WHY! )

How to become More Happy in life!

  1. Know Who you are
    So the first things to do is knowing your self.
    First things to do, if you want to be more Happy in life is you know what are you. Who are You. And just Be You.
    Dont be others people.
    If you are an indonesian be an Indonesian.
    If you are an Javanese , be A good Javanese.
    If you are an American, or Australian, or Brazilian, just be you. Be who you are!

But many people doesn't know her/his self.
Honestly i felt it. I was born and grow up in Borneo Island, but my Father Comes from Yogyakarta. So, i life with many Culture that inspire me when i grow. I hang out with various friends, chinese, Batak, javanese, Dayak, Bugis, and many more.
When I move to Semarang City (still in indonesia), i just feels different. But when i come back again to Pontianak , Borneo island, it's also feels different. It's make me confused when people ask me, Where are you from?
If Javanese ask me, i said, i'm from pontianak. When a person from pontianak ask me, i said, i'm from Semarang.
Hahahaha...! LoL! This is so funny. :D
To know more deeply about who you are, you must know what your strengths and weaknesses.
What's your hobby? What activity you love to do. What kind of food that you like and you don't Like.
and many more. You have to figure it out. You have to do what you love to do. And just be You. Dont be like others.

  1. Accept who you are
    After you find out who really are you, you have to accept it. Don't fight what you can not fight.
    Everybody has a strenght and weakness. Like me, basically i am a shy person.
    easy to angry and easily agitated people. But i accept it all. All my weakness, i accept it, so i can find the way to control it.
    Sometimes, it's not in control, but most of it controlled.
    If you understand and accept what you weakness and strenght, you can find a way how you lived and grow.
    You can find a way how to developt your self to be better than now. :)
  1. Be Proud and be Gratefull
    This is important, You have to proud and Gratefull with yourself. What ever things happen in your life. You have to be Proud and Gratefull. Because You are Uniq. You are different. And God created you with purpose. No one perfect in this life. And you have to be gratefull because you are not perfect. You don't have to be perfect. You just have to be you.

  2. Choosing Close Friend
    You have to deside , who is your close friend. You can be friends with anyone or anythings. But you can choose some close friends, who really know you too, accept you , and proud & Gratefull with you. You don't need many, just pick 3 or 5 close friends who can make you Grow not make you Down!

  3. Give More, take Less,
    This is very important. If you have friends , dont be a person that always looking for help. Be a person who helpfull with others. Not only with your close friends, but also with anyone. Don't expect reward if you give people help. Be Sincere. And Be a solution, not being an judmental person.

  4. Faith, Hope , and Love
    This is the last, and These completed all of it.
    Be Faithfull. Have Hope, And Have Love.
    Dont worry to much about your problem, There are God who always help you. In a problem, there is an solution.
    And be a person who spread love, not Hate. IF you want to darkness, you just get it. If you want light, you also will get light.

So, for those of you ( indonesian ) who want to know more about this topics, you can follow me on my Podcast.
on this link.

If you want to follow my instagram account you can follow @gilangswandika or @yuliusgi
( this is my art account ).
Soon my Podcast will upload to Dsound, but i still figure out how can i login. ( Because i can't! SAD )
But you can Find out on anchor,
or you can follow on soundcloud.

Soon i will give you more update blog.

Thank you for reading.
See you!
My website yuliusgi.com

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