the 3rd wave, and some others, are looking at the world through oppression colored glasses. they continually mistake the connections that we have with each other, that hold civilization together, for ties that bind or chains that hold us down. if i were hanging over a cliff, i would not see the chain as oppression, but as salvation. these 3rd wavers are deliberately wallowing in a victim mindset. they cannot be convinced of their error, but only allowed to find the truth, or not, themselves. they are full of hate, so that is all they see.