Children must live together and until the end of their childhood. The importance of this problem can be felt from various mistakes, in terms of children's education. Because the mother is the satisfaction and the formation of the child's personality from the moral and morals, where most affect him in childhood. If the mother has to work outdoors or travel, choose a baby sitter that is familiar with the children and pass most children together lovingly.

In societies that do not have principles to live a life or do not have a clear policy, all issues including education problems are unclear, even chaotic.

How many moms would prefer to do activities in various places and leave it to the babysitters. For them it does not matter what happens and will be what kind of person in the future. Being separated from children is not seen as small or simple. But if it has to happen, the mother should go for self-examination and the money needed for the child.

Young children are very sensitive to parting from someone and they can accept the new condition, even if someone loves it, but still it is not good for it. Small children who parted with mother will feel bad. The world is considered dark, alien, without love, and has even lost privacy and the world. The distant and separated child of the mother is always sad and depressed. He can not speak from the mind and there is nothing good, not even an appetite. His face was pale and restless always. Sometimes he wakes up at night and often seeks excuses. The little boy can accept his absence knowing that he will return home after some time traveling. But if anyone reveals that it is impossible as usual, the delivery of this news can surprise. If a mother had to part with her, she would have to make sure she would come back and see. Wrong if small children can not tell which mother and what not, make the children can be used parting with her mother.

The results prove that children who are one and a half months will react when compared to his mother, although the problem can be nutritional. The child of that age had already felt the pain with the separation. The separation of the child from the family will cause disturbance in the child's self and behavior. The introduction done in this issue indicates that little, not attack, unbalanced, empathetic and selfish action. He likes to isolate himself and does not want to socialize. Others are stubborn and like to find excuses. They come to understand how to run away from home, no one loves it and from the psychological side can never be satisfied.

The child needs caress and true love. What a baby sitter does can not meet this need completely. In conjunction with the problem of child growth, studies have been carried out in accordance with children who grew up in such conditions. Growth and distance. Increasingly widespread, increasing, and also slower. Especially for children who have brain intelligence. The personality of this child from the moral and emotional side is not fast growing, even this problem will affect it to be great. This includes the problem of child's psychological growth and the treatment of children saying that they are suffering from psychological growth delays. The absence of a mother on the child's side when it occurs over and over will make the child from being a careless person and this is very detrimental to the child. Children also do not want to accept others as emotions and always fight back.

Back again that the longer the mother is not present at the side of the room, then the losses suffered by children is also getting bigger. If the children begin to get used to this, in themselves it will not become dominant and will not know his mother. While it is not there, the child will come to a conclusion Not willing to accept his mother. But keep in mind that the absence of the mother on the side does not have long, because the mistake of the mother's absence can only be acceptable in the child. Never leave the child by taking advantage of his negligence. If after the children go to groups or kindergartens and mothers want to travel, then because this already exists. Because getting the kids back from school, he expects to find and find, if not find his mother, then it will be very painful for him.