Leaving things clear

One of the things that caught my attention recently in discord is that I have received messages from men with a somewhat wrong attitude when writing me, since they insinuate themselves to me by offering money and other things to get my attention or asking for things that I obviously will not give for more money they give me, Gentlemen the fact that I live in Venezuela and that the economic situation of the country does not lend itself to satisfy all the needs of a woman that does not give reason to offer me things or money in exchange for my integrity as a woman,Well I am open to receiving messages from any kind of person with due respect to not being doing this kind of thing since I will be forced to block them in discord.

I have not needed nor do I think I need a man to cover my economic needs, well I can take care of doing that,so do not bother to be making hints that they will be the men to solve my life,since I am 100% sure that I do not need a man to assert myself as a woman, I consider that a real woman is worth herself and does not depend on a man to do it,and if I am an independent woman, What is an independent woman?In my opinion it can be anything, depending on the way they see it, an independent woman is one who is governed by her own rules; Make your own decisions about anything you want could also be a somewhat feminist vision: you want equal conditions.

I need to have spaces to put things in order or in perspective, and start again when necessary, that is, time to reflect on what I want; evaluate where I want to go and what I have to do to achieve it, I do not necessarily have to draw the conclusion that I am a lesbian just because I do not have a boyfriend and because I do not accept the economic advances offered.

I see relationships as initiatives that require an effort of up to 110 percent of Time, dedication and patience, and the same also I ask of the other person. I consider the emotional consequences before starting a relationship, and the chosen one will be someone who is willing to grow with me and push us to be better people.

Understand things apart from interacting in discord I also have my own social circle, I go out with the person I want to go out with, so do not demand explanations as if they were my parents or my partner since this looks very pathetic, The truth is that you do not, because I value 100% of my friends for years and I do not place myself in a situation in which I choose them or you, because I will be sincere and i will say that they.

I am studying Nursing and it is a career that I see as a profession and an objective for which I must work to achieve, I have professional and personal goals aimed at improving myself in all aspects, finding the satisfaction of seeing everything I have achieved on my own.

Truly, I applaud you and melt you for those men who open the door and hold us as we pass; They give me their coat when I'm cold. That gentleman who flatters me by saying how pretty I am or by showing his politeness or concern by asking me: Hey, how was your day? or you already ate or give me some gift selflessly or not demanding something in return.