Three years ago, in October, I flew in to New York from Moscow

in emigration •  15 days ago 

Three years ago, in October, I flew in to New York from Moscow. I didn’t have any job offer, savings, or a place to stay. I didn’t know what’s awaiting me there, and the only thing I brought with me was my love for the city.

With the $1,000 monthly budget, I spent half of it on coffee and cigarettes. I was sleeping in my friend’s room, reading Mark Twain and listening to The Ramones in the evening.

In the daytime, I was desperately looking for a job, but it wasn’t easy.

At some point, I was offered to cook borsch at ‘Uncle Vanya’ in Manhattan (a Russian restaurant well known for helping newborn emigrants) and to write refugees stories for some lawyer.

Sometimes I got small fees from Russian magazines - Esquire or GQ. When I published a story about my friend (still as a journalist), she took me to the ‘Sleep No More’ show (the ticket was $100 — rather expensive for me). I didn’t eat out for the first six months, and I still remember how I tried my first steak in Nee York. Yet, it was a great time and a year of my personal growth.

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Well, it’s all pretty different now. I run my communications agency, have a few clients and work with many contractors. I live in the heart of Manhattan and love eating out.

I’ve never suffered being without money, but I had a real challenge of how to start making it. The transition from being a journalist to a PR person has been the hardest thing for me ever. Though, I still consider myself a writer as I do lots of personal writing aside from my agency. I learned the business side in New York which I would have never taken in Moscow. As Paul Graham put it in his essay about different cities, the clearest message of New York is “you should make money.”

It’s been three years for me in NYC. Such an interesting ride, which transfers you from love to frustration, and back all the time. New York is your most demanding partner, who you always have to find new ways to get along with.

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What an incredible story! Keep writing please. I flew in to NYC 1988 and out 1999 ......

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  ·  15 days ago (edited)

"I didn’t know what’s awaiting me there, and the only thing I brought with me was my love for the city."
That was brave. But I also know people, who moved out to the USA even without knowing English. They learned English there.

"With the $1,000 monthly budget, I spent half of it on coffee and cigarettes."
So, you spent $500 USD on coffee and on cigarettes?
Either the coffee and the cigarettes are expensive in the USA, or you bought excessive amounts of them. Either way, we are very different. My current full monthly income is less than $500 USD. I can't even imagine spending $500 USD monthly only on coffee and on cigarettes. Okay, I don't even drink coffe, and I don't smoke either, so I don't know how much the coffee and the cigarettes would cost even in my own country (Hungary).
By the way, I would probably not move to New York. New York is one of the biggest cities with a lot of people, and it has a polluted air. I prefer the countryside. Calmness, quietness and clear air.
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It took a lot of courage to make that kind of change! New York Is probably one of the most difficult cities to make a living in.

I left my home state of Ohio For Minnesota when I was twenty-four without having a job lined up and it was one of the best decisions I made. It forced me out of my comfort zone and made me strive much harder than I otherwise would have. There are still a few regrets, like losing the time with family members. Overall, the decision was for the best.

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