Fear of growing? Peter Pan's syndrome
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The boys grow and with it responsibilities are coming, and though they want to escape, it is not possible to be a child forever, though for many it is enterteining.
The persons fearfully to growing, are in the habit of being entertained, generally they are surrounded with laughs and happy moments, nevertheless, constant they avoid to expire with his responsibilities, live immersed in fantasies difficult to expire, and blame others for what happens to them or allows happening. If we analyze Peter Pan, he remained an arrested in the way, refused to mature, his ideal space was the island where it does not grow bolder... As well as many children who refuse to grow because the adulthood does not seem to her to be attractive.
Peter Pan's syndrome, it can mean to remain always as a child or manage to be an adult assuming an infantile attitude. He speaks of whom they decided to shelter in a world of fantasy, where any desire was satisfied without effort.
This syndrome owes his name to the movie Peter Pan de Walt Disney Company, and it was given to itself by the doctor Dan Kiley, in his book Peter Pan's syndrome in the year 1983.
The human being from his birth, up to the maturity, crosses a series of physical, affective and intellectual changes; stages and experiences that allow him to forge his personality and autonomy before the life and allow him to grow.
In this point you can be wondering what does happen with our interior child? Adult how cannot I amuse? The experience of growing brings with it challenges, earnings and losses, to leave behind beautiful experiences, though to advance proves to be difficult or disturbing, the commonness will give us the tools to solve the problems and also it will give us wonderful experiences. Since adults can live through moment infantile, many people enjoy the video games, others to demolish parrots commit, the fact is that they are moments of enjoyment, and it is not possible to live anchored to the childhood.
The life is wonderful, the responsibilities nourish us every day, nobody said that it would be easy, but the way of the childhood to the adulthood assumed with entirety, commitment and happiness, they will give us the satisfaction of having done this tour with fullness. We came to this life to be happy, let's live through every stage in the moment that corresponds to us, it assumes challenges without fear, the worse thing that can happen is that you fall down, but always another opportunity exists to raise and to continue yourself.
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I've had to deal with this in my head a number of times. But as you rightly pointed out, we have to embrace every stage. Trying to cling to a previous experience will do us no good. It'll only keep is longing for what we can never have. Good job.
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