Father! How do you discipline your child?

All parents mention the concept of discipline differently: each one has its own styles, approaches, principles and values. There are no two identical families, especially when it comes to shaping the child's behavior. Of course, it is also not worth judging whether one parent is right or the other. However, they believe that there are only two types of education, weak and strong, and it depends on our choice if the discipline is established in the family.

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Because a solid education is characterized by a solid focus, while being penetrated by love, which teaches the child that his parents are the highest authority. Such parents understand that the main objective of the discipline is to develop self-discipline in the child over time.

In fact, most parents think that discipline supported by love is a good thing, but establishing it is another matter. The problem of many parents is not how to introduce discipline (although this is also important), but the desire to do this and understand when it is necessary to do so.

The desire of parents to establish a discipline resides in the understanding that our children are a product of our education and that we are responsible to them. Strong parents understand that it is their duty (which they themselves have burdened) to firmly and decisively shape the identity of their children on the road to growth.

Although establishing discipline requires time and effort, all participants will reap the rewards. Thus, good parents discipline themselves to discipline their children. They are not afraid to show firmness, because they are sure that they are right.

"Rules of discipline"

There are some "Rules of discipline" that indicate when it is time to be strong. If you want to learn how to establish discipline in a specific, timely and effective way, here are some key questions that will guide you to make this decision, according to the child's behavior:

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• Disobedient behavior Is not my son obeying the eldest?
• Aggressive behavior. Is my son causing damage to the property?
• Behavior of attraction Does my child interfere with others?
• Destructive behavior Is my son damaging the environment?
• Dangerous behavior Is my child in danger or in danger of extinction from others?
• Disrespectful behavior Is my child behaving disrespectfully towards other people? The "yes" answer to any of these questions indicates that the time has come to show that you are a strong and responsible parent.

Have you lost your power?:

• If your child constantly interferes when you talk to other people;
• Moaning constantly, because he knows that your "no" will eventually become "yes";
• You find excuses for her bad behavior, starting with "She's tired!" and ending with "It has a character of strong will!";
• you ask your children not to do something, but they do it because you do not follow this;
• you allow your son or daughter to speak disrespectfully to you;
• The penalties that you notice are canceled in advance or do not come into effect.
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Naturally, we love our children, we care about them and we want them to be successful in life. We show love by not allowing them to approach cars, hot plates and suspicious strangers. But good parents show love even when they reject the weak parenting scenarios described above. To be strong and responsible parents and mothers, effort and attention is required, but this is normal, because not a single parent can escape concerns!

Strong education begins with strong values.

Parents perform many important tasks, but the transfer of values ​​to their children is probably the key. This process consists of the constancy, repetitiveness and choice of appropriate moments.

SourceAll parents adhere to different principles, value different actions and indicators of success.

That's why some parents boast saying, "My son plays for the college team!" But to be honest, we would be happier if they said: "My son has excellent manners!" and "My baby is very polite!"

Of course, it does not depend on others to indicate which values are correct; The main thing is that you trust them and live with them.

A necessary element of value orientation is the definition of immutable values. These are principles and actions that strong parents clearly identify as good or bad.

Values help parents and children make wise decisions and make the right decisions. They become tools that guide us in all our efforts.

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Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://guada1.vornix.blog/2018/10/12/father-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/

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