Importance of teaching the negative of envy - Education for children

cindycam (70)in #edu-venezuela • 5 years ago (edited)

There is a feeling that resembles hate and is nothing but envy. Envy makes you suffer even more when you are the object of it.

Envy is a common and very human feeling, like any other feeling.

Envy is a feeling of inferiority, which could be related, for example, when compared to another person.

Is it common envy?

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All people are envious, one way or another. It is important to learn to manage when you feel that others envy what you are or have and how, you should also manage when you have the feeling of envy.

How is it possible to be cured of the feeling of envy?

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When people realize that what they crave, it really is not what they want.

For example:

Money.
Recognition.
The friendships.

These are things that do not give happiness, and this is the error of the envious. The day when all this is achieved is when the person realizes that he is the same happy or unhappy person.

What gives happiness is the ability to love others and especially life. This is independent of beauty, achievements and many other things. But that will not make the person completely happy.

What is the function of the internal dialogue regarding envy?

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Reduce envy.
It makes the absurd feeling disappear.
They will not value nonsense.
You will not be evaluating the extroversion of other people.

This does not make you happy, when analyzing you stop being envious and you gain much more time, effort, and that is no longer the reason to feel inferior. People are released from the inferiority complex.

Can you have a lot of suffering when you tend to compare yourself with other people?

People feel bad, self-esteem decreases a lot and they do not feel successful. It is having a feeling of inferiority with everyone in this world. This is because they value external things that are not the source of happiness.