How to Live The Life of Your Dreams Part 1 of 25 (Dsound)

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Part 1: Do You Know What You Want To Live The Life of Your Dreams?

You go somewhere, you need to know where you are going. Ideally you need a map and good map reader, or a SatNav that doesn't lead you into a lake!

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The same applies to knowing exactly what you want when it comes to living the life of your dreams. All too often we have a vague notion of what we would like our lives to be like, nothing concrete to work towards. Its's time to get precise.

This step is often left out, because it is assumed we already know this.

How many motivational posters tell you things like "go after that one thing that makes you truly happy!"?

Or "never give up on your dreams!"? That is all good and well if youíve always wanted to open your own restaurant, or if you've dreamed of having your own successful band.

But what if you donít know what you want from life?

What if you have lots of different interests that are all pulling you in different directions?

What if your like my friend who is a pilot who has always dreamed of flying long haul, but who has a family back home who he'd never get to see?

In these cases, telling someone to "seize the day and live [their] dreams" just isn't all that helpful!

What you need to do then is to prioritize and you need to look for the things you can get from life that will make you happiest and tick the most boxes.

Let's look at some of the ways you can do that.

Method 1:

Look for the Common Themes

Very often, what this comes down to is identifying the commonalities in your dreams and objectives.

In other words, if you want to be twenty things, then what do those twenty things have in common?

If you want to be an actor and you'd love to be a rock star, then what is it about both those things that makes them appealing? What does being a rock star have in common with being an actor?

Most likely the answer is that both put you in the public eye, both are a kind of performance and both bring a fair amount of wealth.

So as long as you can tick all those boxes, you should be happy whatever you do.

In the next part, I will cover some more methods you can try to find your ultimate dream to pursue....

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Cierto, debemos ir tras lo que queremos en vida, pero debe ser algo bien definido, y ser realista, o sea ponernos metas que son alcanzable para nosotros. No podemos desear imposibles, por eso ser realista es lo mejor. Un gran saludo @hopehuggs

Finding a dream is hard , at least it is for me, because i don't have 1 only dream, i have hundreds! i want to do everything!

Finding a dream and setting a plan for it... my main goal atm that all my dreams share is money, i need money to make them happen, that's why i'm investing, writing, and working my arse off, to get money to make my dreams true

A thing that i've been reading up today is Instant Pleasure Vs. Future Fulfillment, reading it up in this link https://www.theodysseyonline.com/instant-pleasure-vs-future-fulfillment, i have vry huge problems with this because i'm more of a instant pleasure kind of guy, i'm trying to shift my mind into future fulfillment, instant pleasure mentality is, imo, what halts some of my dreams...

Great to check out this first part of an amazing post you just showed the path we should follow in our life

In other words, if you want to be twenty things, then what do those twenty things have in common?

This is an excellent strategy to figure out what it is that really attracts us to those things.

Looking forward to your next parts @hopehuggs!

best method Thanku so much

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