So that's exactly the point, the root of the problem! Ask yourself - why does it bother you that he is out of work?

That’s exactly what went through my mind while reading this. Too much”bother” word. At some point her dream relates to her reality. She may worry about their future financial situation. It’s like this feeling being under water. She may worry to loose her house if they own one...
You know what? If we worry, we die! If we don’t, we die as well. I know, it’s easy to say “don’t worry”, but most of us can’t control our emotions. We worry too much, we get bothered too much for silly things. Look at the bigger picture. Just have a faith and thank God for your relationship with your husband and your family being healthy. Everything else is just a temporary.