SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation

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Marriage is not just a legal agreement, but it is an emotional promise. A bond that connects not just two bodies, but two hearts. It is of great importance to trust, sincerity, and respect.

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In this story, a woman decided to talk to her husband with a heart instead of anger or noise. One night she sat quietly to him and asked in a soft tone:

Adeel, why are you doing all this with me?

Adeel said with astonishment, What do you mean?

The woman said, I saw the message you sent to another girl. Why are you sending her heart and affectionate words?

Adeel laughed and said, Oh he's just a friend, you are thinking more than you need.

The wife said sadly, Friendship lasts as long as the intention is clear. Sending heart emojis at night, and calling it 'your' is not a friendship but a deception.

Adeel was a little serious, I was feeling a little alone, you are busy, so talk to someone.

The wife gently said, Removing loneliness does not mean that your loyalty will change. If you felt lonely, you would tell me, I would sit with you and listen to you. But you have broken my confidence.

Adeel was silent. The wife further said:

Marriage does not mean living under the same roof, but listening to each other, sharing feelings and staying faithful. If you were bothering my engagement, you would help me, understand me.

Adeel bowed his head with humiliation. The wife's words went into her heart.

Loyalty is not just physical, emotional deception is more painful. The physical wounds are healed over time, but the heart's wound lasts longer.

Who demonstrates more emotional understanding?

Obviously, the wife showed more emotional maturity. He raised the problem in a very soft tone without noise and described his grief. This is proof of his self -esteem and internal power.

Is emotional deception more dangerous than physical?

Yes, emotional deception hollows out the relationship inside. When someone else comes to the heart, the status of physical loyalty also disappears.

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What are the signs of emotional distance?

Hiding a phone, reducing dialogue, eliminating physical proximity, and not paying attention are all clear symptoms of emotional distance.

Can love survive after such a deception?

The problem is definitely, but not impossible. If both sides try to re -establish truth, apology and re-trust, the relationship can be strengthened again. It is important to understand the true dialogue and each other's suffering.

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As an advisor, what will I advise?

The first step is to talk openly. Remove misunderstandings and feel each other's pain. Do not be in the third thing, and contact an experienced adviser if needed. Work gently, patience, and sincerely to save the relationship.

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Conclusion

Finally, it is important to understand that marriage is not just the name of living together, but a relationship that has confidence, love, closeness and truth. If any of them becomes weak, the whole relationship is shaken. When an emotional distance is created in a relationship, it is important to recognize it on time and talk about it.

Even if one mistake is made, talk to heart instead of quietly. Relationships can be re -connected through words, feelings, and truth. But the condition is that the intention is clear from both sides and the honor of his partner in his heart.

Remember, the heart you live, it is easy to break the heart, but his pain feels all his life. So take time to save love, talk, and prove your loyalty.

Love survives only when the two try to keep it alive.

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