I definitely think you're onto something here, that at least part of the agenda is to direct the focus of creative beings at something that is destructive. Though it's far from the only negative thing that's come of the relentless barrage of gender confusion- there's a whole generation of kids who are struggling to find their place in this world and jumping on the bandwagon just to feel part of the club, or included in a group.

I've always held the mindset 'to each their own', but that was always assuming that people knew who they were and what they wanted (and that 'their own' didn't include harming anyone)