If it's not your goal, don't do it

When I was in class 12 and my exams were about to be held, after that I had to graduate. My plan was to become a doctor after graduation, that is, to do MBBS but my sister, criticized me that I could not get more than 80 percent marks because I do not have that much brain so I should give up this goal then I felt that her thinking was quite small and I realized that despite being my real sister, she thinks so badly of me. For some time, I was very depressed because of my sister, but after some time, I realized that if she is stopping me from moving up by saying this, then I should show her this goal by achieving it so that her mouth can be shut and I never complained to her or asked her why you told me that because time brings out the true nature of every person in front of us.

All my sisters are very mean. I don't know why their nature is like this, but whenever I think of doing something new in my life, they always do something that demotivates me and I think many times before taking that step.

In constructive criticism, you show respect with criticism, while in destructive criticism, you insult in form of criticism and do not even give a solution to the problem, while in constructive criticism, the solution to the problem is also given. In simple words, constructive criticism is criticism that is you convey message in politeness to the next person, but destructive criticism is one in which you get rude and the next person feels bad about what you said.

I have never left god because of what people say. Yes, if people are blood relatives, I definitely feel sad once in a while that they aren't meant to see myself successful but sometimes change my decision after thinking about the suggestions of others who honestly give me suggestion they are my meant to see me on sky, but it doesn't matter to me what people will say when I have something thoroughly.

Yeah already answered in question number one.

You must be thinking that my whole life is surrounded by the school environment. Actually, I am a student, so I am more inclined towards studies. The answer to this question is that when I was in the first semester of university, I did not understand anything because I never adjust in new environment easily so I used to complain a lot at home that I did not like university and my parents felt that I did not get any marks at all in this semester. They used to tell me to complain less and focus on studies and with the passage of time everyone started realizing that I was finding studies difficult that is why I make such excuses. When the results came, I had 3.89 GP which surprised everyone and I proud on my self.

My best friend, when you have no one to support you in this world, then God Almighty sends you a friend like angel. My friend is freaking stupid and we do a lot of wrong things, but whenever I needed her in life, she has supported me in my decisions without ever objecting.

I would like to say that the more people you meet in your life, the more challenges you will face. You must have heard this saying, "The more you talk, the more you get" So never demotivate yourself because of what people will say about your goals. If you like something, then definitely choose that thing for yourself because it's your life not other's neither anyone else is responsible for your actions.

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If you could say something to everyone who gives their opinion without knowing your story, what would it be?

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What do you think about this saying: "Some people want to see you good but not better than them"?

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Invitation @safdarali @isha-rehman @suboohi

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