泡菜效应

in cn-malaysia •  13 days ago

昨天说了蛋壳效应,今天再说说泡菜效应。这也是我在查阅育儿资料时看到的名词。

泡菜效应,是说同样的蔬菜在不同的水中浸泡一段时间后,将它们分开煮,其味道是不一样的。它揭示了环境对人的成长具有非常重要的作用。

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这又是属于现代人新造的名词。古话里早就有“近朱者赤,近墨者黑”,“与善人居,如入芝兰之室,久而不闻其香,即与之化矣”,这些都是说的环境对人的影响。

最近这些年流行拿“原生家庭”说事,说一个人当下种种行为和观点,都是原生家庭这个环境影响的结果,说的也是类似的事情。

回到我们教育孩子的问题上。

从古到今,人们都认为环境对人的影响是巨大的,那么作为父母,我们到底应该怎么做呢?怎样才算给孩子营造了一个良好的环境呢?

物质条件是无法突变的,每个家庭条件都不一样,我们能做的,只有精神层面了。

首先,要让孩子对于生命,生活有感恩,敬畏之心,以我的观点来看,有宗教信仰的家庭,比较容易做到这一点。比如饭前祷告,就很有仪式感,能让孩子从小就懂得感恩与尊重。

其次,就是阅读兴趣的培养了。爱看书的人,坏不到哪里去。如果家长本身喜爱阅读,孩子大概率会爱上读书。

最后,就是家庭和睦了。父母之间如果感情不和,关系紧张,三天一吵,五天一打,这对孩子的影响是巨大的,终生受害。

或许很多父母都因为原生家庭这个环境不是很理想而受到过影响,那么,现在自己有了家,有了孩子,所能做的,就是让孩子这棵幼苗,尽可能地健康成长,注意家庭环境,免得今后孩子提到“原生家庭”的时候,满是无奈……

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你写的育儿心得真是太好了...👍
很有感触~很谢谢你(*°∀°)=3
多说一句
看到这个泡菜流口水鸭😻