Proverbs - Day 6 💗💗

Hey Friends , so today is all about the chapter 6 , and today I feel like saying some 10 things that I feel is bad for any relationship , may it be a marital , or between parents and children , or between friends . You guys can think about what your 10 things would be .

10 Things that I feel is bad for any relationship

1. Being unfaithful - This should be the number 1 right ?! May it be any kind of relationship , this one could damage everything. So let's try to be faithful to all our relationships.

2. Lying on a regular basis - You know , once a person lies , he/she has to lie again to cover the other lie , then it turns into other lie. Which could be so lethal. So be truthful to everyone you care about .

3. Disrespect towards the other person- When one doesn't respect the other person , they do whatever , which is not also a good thing , that's how a relationship starts to break. I strongly feel that , everyone should respect one another. We should do what we want to receive right!?

4. Doesn't care about others - This is mainly when the other person is in their own world , they are playing video games , or doing their own things . And they forget they have some people who cares about them. They are caught up in the worldly things . Which is very bad. I feel you need to care about others very deeply .

5. Afraid to love - This one is so true for me itself , mostly because of many sad things that has happened , it's really hard to open up my heart to others . It's true , I feel this is when I am this much open , I even tell my mom ,old stories and why I was moody or anything , nowadays. Cause before I was a loner. Like really. So try not to be like that. I know , it is hard , but trust them ( not everyone , that special people).

6. Always supicious about the other person -Usually this happens , when the wife or husband has serious doubts whether ,the other person is seeing someone else . But many a times , it's not true , but because of their fear of losing them , they have delusions that , they have other plans. This breaks their relationship completely , because if these feelings , they won't be able to love one another.

7. No Trust between one another - This world is so bad , it's really hard to trust . But , I really feel , without that trust , there is no relationship. It's the trust that makes all the difference. So give it a try. Or , if you really are unable , then talk about your issues with someone.

8. Lost Beauty or strength - Sometimes , after a pregnancy , or after an accident ,it's pretty hard to look beautiful , or be your old self , so the partner looses interest in their relationship. There are many people , who still make it work. But usually that's how ,they start to loose interest in each other. But I feel one shouldn't just look at the outer beauty , what really matters is the inner beauty. And one should be supportive at that time .

9. No Prayer - This is actually more than number 1 . Because if God is the center if a relationship , then that relationship will have a lesser chance of breaking , as you both will know what is the right and wrong thing to do. So I hope God is the center of your relationships.

10. They feel that others have much better relationships - The feeling of Grass is greener on the other side . But it's not really true. And they have an affair. Wrong choice.

God made you a couple , or a family or friends for a reason. So give them a fair chance. Pray about every situation to god , and I think whatever it is , there will be change.

Now moving to our chapter.

My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor, if you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger, you have been trapped by what you said, ensnared by the words of your mouth. So do this, my son, to free yourself, since you have fallen into your neighbor’s hands: Go—to the point of exhaustion— and give your neighbor no rest! Allow no sleep to your eyes, no slumber to your eyelids. Free yourself, like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of the fowler. Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest. How long will you lie there, you sluggard? When will you get up from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest— and poverty will come on you like a thief and scarcity like an armed man. A troublemaker and a villain, who goes about with a corrupt mouth, who winks maliciously with his eye, signals with his feet and motions with his fingers, who plots evil with deceit in his heart— he always stirs up conflict. Therefore disaster will overtake him in an instant; he will suddenly be destroyed—without remedy. There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
Proverbs 6:1‭-‬19 NIV

So these are my favorite verses for today.

And I feel that , what God is telling us is that , if we are lazy and slumber alot , when we are supposed to work . Then we will become poor , or if we were very rich , we end up spending everything and then become helpless. So we need to be hardworking.

Then he is talking about people with evil intensions , there are people who have jealousy , or people who continuously gossip , or people who plots some evil things against us. We should be very careful of such people. And we shouldn't be like that. We should love one another , and even forgive other. If our friend has something more than us , be happy for them , congratulate them. And when our turn comes , we will also receive. Just wait patiently.

These are the 7 things that the Lord hates more than anything. And they are:

1. Haughty eyes
2. A lying tongue
3. Hands that shed innocent blood
4. A heart that devises wicked schemes
5. Feet that are quick to rush into evil
6. A false witness who pours out lies
7. A person who stirs up conflict in the community

My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. For this command is a lamp, this teaching is a light, and correction and instruction are the way to life, keeping you from your neighbor’s wife, from the smooth talk of a wayward woman. Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes. For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life. Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned? Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched? So is he who sleeps with another man’s wife; no one who touches her will go unpunished. People do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy his hunger when he is starving. Yet if he is caught, he must pay sevenfold, though it costs him all the wealth of his house. But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.
Proverbs 6:20‭-‬35 NIV

These are my favorite verses from this part .

And what I feel is that , basically this part speaks alot more about how adultery is bad , and how one must be loyal and faithful. If not , will have to suffer all the consequences. And God doesn't like people who do that.

Always remember to follow your parents advice as well as the advice given to you by God , the 10 commandemends , and one of the most important one is infact , Thou shall not commit adultery!.

There will be many , who are trying to make you fall for them . But be loyal to yourself. Even if your neighbours wife says she has feelings for you , just like Joseph , run , don't let her use you. Don't let her make you fall into sinning. And there will be other women who are prettier than your wife ,but you chose your wife for a reason. God made you chose her for a reason . So even if she became fat , or lost her beauty , love her. She lost it for you , to have your babies. So acknowledge that. (This can be said for wives for husband too , don't cheat on your loving husband)

We are living in a very cruel world , where a man was killed just because he stole a loaf of bread , imagine , so even if nobody sees you cheating , god is seeing everything. So please try not to .

Thank you guys for supporting and reading with me . I hope this was a blessing for you somehow. May God continue to bless you and heal you . May God fix your marriages , if any problems are happening. May God be the center of all your relationship. 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗