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She was the only daughter of her parents in the family of four, and she happened to be the first child, and so she had to go to school, so her parents sold all they
had to see her through her education.
God helped her and she graduated with a good grade, she went for her NYSC(National Youth Service Corp) a one year course you embark on, to serve your father's land that's if you are a Nigerian. On returning her parents asked her to go get a job, marry and then sent her other siblings to school, the pressure was so much on her but she still held firm.

She went back to the city in search of a lucrative job since she studied accounting in school, but all her effort proofed abortive, because it was either she was asked to deny her faith as a Christian or give her body in exchange for the job she seek, but she still stood firm and resisted.
But a time came that she was fade up and she gave in to a man that had already been married but lied to her that he wasn't, simply because he saw her desperation and after hearing about the pressure exerted on her from her family he seized the opportunity and woe her to himself, and she fell deeply into the trap. Due to what she passed through she never discussed about the man to her pastor for fear of him rejecting the man, she carefully avoided Godly counsel. Barely two weeks into the so call blissful marriage, she received the shock of her life when the first wife to her husband confronted her and she was so heart broken.
She ran to the pastor that she once refused his counsel, he advised her and told her to come back to God but this time she has to start from the scratch. She was indeed back to zero point.
She lost her virginity to some one that never worth it, it was the worst mistake of her life.

Lesson learnt:-

1. Never allow the pressures of life either from family members, friends, peers, etc. Push you to do something contrary to God's will.

2. You are entitled to the consequences you see due to your decisions in life, no one bears it for you whether good or bad. They will either laugh at you or laugh with you.

3. We all have our timetable before God, that your friends are all getting married doesn't mean you should, just wait on God.

4. Don't allow the devil ever make you feel God doesn't love you enough because you are passing through some difficulties in life, God still loves you.

5. No sin is too hard for God to forgive.
After all he said in Isaiah 1:18.

18.Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

6. Marriage is not an escape root to poverty.

7. One has to be very careful least you drop or let go of your salvation at the altar of marriage.

8. Never let out too much about yourself to everyone you meet, not everyone deserves to hear it, they will use it against you someday, they may even think less of you or look down on you. I am a victim, so you too have to learn. Not everyone deserves to know you that much.

There are many lessons to be learnt, but i will draw my curtain here, you can as well add yours.
I remain

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