This reminds me of a song where a child always wants dad to spend time with him. The child understands that dad is busy and waits for the "later" and says one day he will be like his dad.
Later arrives. Now the son is busy. If dad asks when he sees his son again there's never time and dad waits and waits and remembers the time he told his son the same and concludes the boy became just like him.
It's good that you two still spend time together and even better Sofia goes and eats what she likes although I wouldn't call it "come along".