Stop judging people and see them for who they are!

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Have you ever judged someone by the way they look? Have you ever been wrong about someone? 

Truth is, we all judge, and we make mistakes. But we also have that sixth sense that warns you when you meet someone. Should you trust this person or not?

The saying don't judge a book by it's cover is much easier said than done. People are often judged by the way they dress, or by the number of tattoos they have on their bodies. People are judged by what is on their outside, and not judged on what is on the inside that really matters.   

Overweight people are often not recognized for who they really are, and sometimes overlooked for positions because of the image they portray.   

We live in a such a sad world, where everyone just fights to stay alive, and try to be the best they can be, but because of the way they look, they are often judged and damaged by other people without even realizing it. 

Often we say things to people without thinking and we don't even think of how something as silly as one sentence can make someone else feel. 

People are damaged because of bullying, and develop psychological  problems because things are just too much to handle. People start hiding away, because they have been hurt so badly by other people that they become disconnected with the world. Those same people become angry and negative towards life because they don't know how to connect to others anymore. Just because they were judged the wrong way.   

Just think about this scenario. You walk into a shop and you see the cutest little puppy. You want to touch it and pick it up and just hug it, but as soon as you come closer, that same puppy turns into a growling little monster. All that cute puppy wants to do now is to bite you. It doesn't want to be touched. 

People are the same. The more they get hurt, the more they hide. 

So stop looking at the outside, and start being conscious when you talk to a person you had just met. Monitor your thoughts and think before you speak. Change your mindset, and don't judge before you get to know a person.  Start focusing on yourself, and not on the other person. 

Get rid of negative thoughts, and find something positive in that person and focus on that. 

Remember how it feels to be judged! 

Judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who you are!