Bride greedy AF

I was talking to my friends about brides and stuff she's getting married soon and talking about traveling to Hawaii and different exotic locations and how they want to just travel on their own terms and have vacation on their own terms but these people want to have there their weddings and some exotic location expect all their guests and friends to pay their way and then buy them gifts too I mean this is some shady business right here I mean they register and inspect the lavish gifts and then they invite you and expect you to pay like $2,000 and plane tickets and hotel accommodations just to see him get married they wonder why people don't show up because I mean who has that kind of money right any thoughts as it happened that you?