Hello Steemit...What is most important in your life? What is work? Family? Love / partner? Religion? Or yourself?

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What is most important in your life? What is work? Family? Love / partner? Religion? Or yourself?

For many people, religion, family, and love / partner are the most important things.

Concerning and focusing on these three aspects does look right and natural.

But, do you know, according to Stephen R. Covey, the author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, focusing on one of the three aspects tends to be ineffective.

Why?

In this article, I will show you why. In addition, I will also show you what should be the center of one's life according to Covey.

For this reason, see this article for completion. Hopefully this article useful for you.

Why Is Family-Centered, Love, or Religion Ineffective?
Why is family-centered, love / partner, or religion ineffective?

Here's the reason.

Family

Focusing on the family does seem right and natural. However, sometimes this attitude actually destroys.

People who focus their lives on families are often disappointed to find that their family ties are not as beautiful as they expected. A father or mother will be left by their children and their children will prioritize their own families. Likewise your bond. An older brother or sister will be separated and farther away.

Parents who focus their lives on the family feel valuable as a person when their family's reputation is good. Therefore, what is important for him is to keep the family's reputation from being tarnished.

This family reputation can be maintained by maintaining family traditions and culture in accordance with the traditions and culture of the environment in which the family lives.

The problem is when one or several family members leave the tradition and culture and choose their own way of life. For parents who focus their lives on families, this is certainly considered to make the family's reputation tarnished.

Finally, not only parents are hurt. Children are also injured as a result of being considered as a smearer of the family's good name.

Unfortunately, not a few children feel uncomfortable and do not fit into the traditions and culture of their family and environment.

Love / partner

People who concentrate their lives on love / partner become emotionally dependent on the partner's love. Happiness and sadness depend on the attitude of the partner. If the partner is good to him, then he is happy. However, when his partner is not as he expected, he becomes disappointed.

Religion

People who focus their lives on religion often find themselves losing the meaning of their spirituality / diversity. He is too busy with rituals to forget the nature. Therefore, he actually becomes a dogmatic person who accepts and makes every religious teaching as a guide to life no matter whether the teaching is in accordance with the context of the era or not.

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